BDSM – Are You Into Something Kinky

BDSM – Are You Into Something Kinky

Have you ever got turned on by watching some kinky videos?

Or have you read 50 Shades of Grey and taught that you would like to experience something like that? Well, you may be into some kinky stuff and you’re not even aware of it. Or maybe you kind off know you’re into it but are too shy to admit it.

First of all, let me say that there is nothing wrong with you and you should not be shy about embracing your sexuality and knowing what you like. Almost every person on this planet has some kind of fetish and the only thing that’s wrong about it is believing it’s weird and letting society stop you from enjoying yourself.

If you flinched and have images of hard BDSM and Christian Grey’s red room of pain in your head right now, let me stop you.

There is a big difference between traditional, kinky and BDSM.

When you think about traditional sex, or as it’s usually called “Vanilla sex”, do you imagine some spanking? Or maybe using a blindfold? Or even giving oral pleasure to your partner while he/she talks dirty to you? For some people, these acts are just conventional sex while other people consider them as kinky. It’s hard to define sexual acts because it’s too subjective and can mean different things to different people.

The same rule can be applied when it comes to the difference between kink and BDSM. For some people, using sex toys, hair pulling, role-playing, and bondage falls into kink category, and for some into BDSM. But BDSM can be much rougher and some people enjoy every aspect of it. That doesn’t mean you have to go that far. Besides, you can always explore and read more about BDSM.

BDSM doesn’t have to be dark, mean and commanding.

It doesn’t mean you have to be submissive or dominant. Or you can be that just a little bit, without strict punishments. However, it can be gentle and romantic too. Letting go of control and trust someone to take good care of you while giving you sexual pleasure can be so liberating. It is all about the connection between you and your partner, and your play can be as intense as you want it to be. That’s the real pleasure.

Now think about some fantasies you have. Think about what turns you on and what you would love to experience in sex. Do you have some dirty, kinky thoughts? Now go for it, even if it’s just being blindfolded and you have no desire to go further than that. Just remember it’s important for you to feel good and comfortable and ALWAYS set your boundaries. Don’t push yourself if you are not enjoying it.

 

We want to hear from you. Have you ever tried something kinky or BDMS? What is kinky for you? What do you enjoy?

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