BOOK REVIEW – She Comes First

BOOK REVIEW – She Comes First


Genre: self-help
SL mark: 4.2/5


“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”
Cosmopolitan magazine

That being said, we present to you Ian Kerner’s essential guidebook to oral sex – ”She Comes First”.

In this book, Mr. author offers a new approach for pleasuring women. Well-known New York Times talks up about his ”cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he ”encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.”. Techniques and philosophy he gives us, readers, have been recognized by people like Dr. Drew Pinsky and magazines, like Playgirl Magazine.

This manual is full of practical anatomical information and graphics line drawings and also, Kerner touches more psychological aspects of oral sex, including assurances every woman needs from her SO to feel comfortable. His main word of advice is that men should make oral sex ”coreplay”, instead of foreplay. Where ”coreplay” would be a phase in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then releases itself through female orgasm. He gives a detailed walkthrough six stages of coreplay, speaking to both beginners and more seasoned lovers.

We especially liked how he names his licks – the Elvis Presley snarl, the Jackson Pollock lick, Rope a Dope and many more, giving another value to this book.

Furthermore, after reading the book, I must say that I agree with Cosmopolitan, it serves as a tool to a healthier and more fulfilling sex life for both parties. I encourage you to buy this book and read it or give it as a gift to your male companion, it will be a good investment.


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A more than self-explanatory quote from the author to finish the article:

“Sex doesn’t make women come and oral sex does, so men need to put the tongue before the sword. ”
– Ian Kerner


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