The lights are low, there’s soft porn playing in the background and your lover is seductively stripping in front of you. She begins to whisper in your ear, telling you how wet she is and how her pussy is aching to be fucked.
You feel your groin tighten and your cock stir as you reach down to touch yourself, but instead of your rock-hard shaft, your hand brushes against an unforgiving cage. Your cock is being kept prisoner, locked in a chastity cage, and you’re unable to wank, shag, or cum.
For some, the idea of chastity is tantamount to sexual torture, but for others, the thought of being forced to abstain from any form of sexual pleasure is thrilling.
The concept is the same regardless of gender – chastity devices typically consist of a waistbelt fitted around the torso, a crotch strap between the legs, and a cover for the genitals (and sometimes the butt hole too).
If you’re a penis owner you’re likely to be met with a chastity device featuring a cage, pouch, or shield that fits neatly over your cock. You won’t be able to move your dick freely and there will be no way to stimulate it with fingers, a hand, a toy, or anyone else’s sexual organs.
Take a look at the Sevanda Ergo Cage we are playing with.
No jizzin’ for you while you’re all locked up!
Male chastity belts come in a wide range of styles, colors, and materials, offering differing levels of comfort and restriction. Most of these penis belts can be adjusted to fit, and some are lockable, so your cock can be safely secured.
If you’re a solo player you can stow the key away for your chosen period of chastity – let’s hope you can resist the temptation to unlock your cage and choke your chicken.
If you like the idea of power play, the key can be handed over to someone else, leaving you to squirm as you consider how long you might have to remain caged and restrained.
If you’re a good boy you might even be lucky enough to be locked in a device that has a butt plug attached, for added pleasure (or discomfort) depending on your point of view!
Let’s kick off with a brief list of tips you should be following when playing:
Get creative with your chastity cage play
There are plenty of naughty ways to torment a cage wearer, and you don’t have to be experienced in chastity to enjoy having your cock in a lock.
For some, chastity is just a fun way to play in the bedroom, and being denied sexual pleasure can be both frustrating and exhilarating. The thought that your penis might be released and that you might be able to cum at some point builds sexual tension.
Revving you up
Your lover can enjoy teasing and edging you, making suggestive comments, touching you generally revving you up to the point where you just want to explode.
Sexy show
Hell, your other half can even put on a sexy show for you, touching their pussy or cock, masturbating, and making themselves cum, while you look on unable to touch your dick or give it any attention at all.
Edging
Edging can be very pleasurable, but very frustrating too. Imagine your cock swelling in the cage, straining at the bars as it tries to stiffen.
Your lover takes pity on you and releases you for a while, you might be instructed to wank yourself, or they might deem you worthy enough to be touched by their hands or mouth.
You can’t help but moan as they caress your aching cock with their fingers, tugging and stroking, before closing their lips around your engorged rod.
If you’re really lucky they might take your cock in their pussy or ass, they might let you thrust inside their holes, or they may ride you for a while.
Then, just as you feel the waves of a climax begin to surge your lover backs away.
They smile at you and ask if you had fun, casually reclining on the bed and telling you to sit on your hands until your throbbing penis starts to wane. Then your poor cock is forced back into its cage, and you’re instructed to make your partner cum with your hands and mouth.
The contrast between being caged and being freed to have some fun becomes an almost unbearable game. Teasing can be torture, and being compelled to pleasure your lover whilst your cock is restrained will prove to be intense.
By the end, you’ll be begging for release from the cage and the enforced no-climax rule.
Sexy games
Edging is exciting but there are other ways to have fun while caged. How about combining chastity with a fun game? Grab a pair of dice and prepare to roll to find out your fate. The sum of the dice could dictate how long you’re going to be caged e.g. roll an 8 and you have 8 minutes, 8 hours, 8 days, 8 weeks, or 8 years (depending on how hardcore you are)!
Alternatively, you could play a fun game of hide and seek. Close your eyes while your lover hides the key. As you hunt your other half can tell you if you’re anywhere close by yelling ”hot” if you’re near and ”cold” if you’re far.
Or, they might draw a map or devise dastardly clues to send you on a treasure hunt (or wild goose chase if they’re feeling mean).
BDSM, bondage and role-play
Other options include combining chastity with BDSM or role-play.
If bondage is your thing there’s every chance you’ll love being tightly tied, blindfolded, and gagged, with a cage locked onto your cock for good measure.
Or perhaps you’ll be suspended from the ceiling, your caged dick bouncing painfully each time the flogger scorches your back and buttocks.
Maybe you’ll be locked in your cage by a stern nurse or doctor and be made to undergo a thorough medical exam.
Alternatively, your cock cage could be the perfect way to sissify you, to reduce or eliminate your manhood by covering and restraining it. A pair of pink lacey panties over the top and a pretty dress for the dirty girl in the corner.
Solo play ideas
If you’re a solo player you can still enjoy playing in different ways.
Dress up in a costume that tickles your fancy, lock yourself in a cage and watch porn movies, or freeze your key in a block of ice so you have to wait until it thaws before you unlock!
No cheating by using artificial heat sources – the penalty for that will be a week in chastity with no breaks.
For those who take chastity seriously, there’s always the option of being caged for longer periods.
Being locked up for a set number of days, weeks, months or years can be surprisingly liberating for some. If taking things to the extreme is your bag you might even opt for permanent chastity, are you ready for a life of celibacy and sexual longing?
Whichever way you choose to play you’ll need to choose the right device to lock your cock in. Check out this buying guide for helpful info and guidance before you part with your hard-earned cash.
It’s time to engage the cage and say goodbye to playing with your rock-steady friend for a while.
By Astolaine.
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