Things That Turn Women On: 12 Things To Know

What are the things that turn women on? This question troubles mankind for eternities.

Until now 😉 Let us take a sneak peek into a few tips that surely will help:

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1. Avoid routine.

Routine is boring.

Women like men who are not 100% predictable. Men who have a surprise or two up in their sleeve. Men who don’t mind shocking their routine. Men who are spontaneous.

Change the routine, include some new experiences which will blow her mind off.

2. Curiosity

Curiosity does not always mean you have to turn into a cat. Well, it isn’t that bad either.

However, it is also an approach to initiate or maintain communication. What I mean by curiosity is that women like when you’re curious about them, when you show interest.

They love to be heard, they want to share things with you. Being a good listener means a lot, I would say even sexy. So be curious, ask about her day, try to find out more.

3. Intimate talks

Many may think this is simply an extension of the above but it is not. The above is wanting to know more about the daily happenings.

Saying sweet nothings into her ears is one of the things that turn women on. May sound clichéd but this works, always. She will squirm in excitement, if not out loud than she’d squirm in silence.

Compliment her, compliment her ass, her body, her effort. Tell her how sexy she looks.

4. A hug from the behind

A hug from behind is on my favorite list since…I don’t know…beginning of time?

Hug her from behind and whisper something nice in her ear. Or something better like ”you look so sexy”, or ”I wanna fuck you.”

Of course, do not forget to complete this action with a kiss.

5. Cuddle

Cuddling is one step above hugs from behind and kisses. Cuddling is very intimate.

Caressing each other, exchanging gentle touches and sweet little kisses. A real fantasy.

Not always will cuddling lead to sex. But it surely will lead to love.

6. Make eye contact

Eyes tell more than we can imagine. You can read all kinds of emotions just by looking at someone’s eyes. So make your eyes talk for you.

Make them show that you’re truly and deeply interested and attracted.

But I have to be clear – eye contact should not end as a staredown, that’s creepy.

The eyes, chico, they never lie.

7. Sex toys

While we are talking about intimacy, it is alright to delve into full-blown action at times. Sex toys are a force multiplier that enhances the experience between the sheets to a higher level.

Play with an (eggplant) dildo, or wear a cock ring for mutual pleasure, and let them do their wonders. Sex toys are built to add momentum and physical intimacy with the required momentum is mind-blowing.

Getting a sex toy for you two is a very confident move, showing that you’re the person who takes initiative and also, it shows your interest in your partner and your intimacy.

If you’re not sure about how your partner will react to a sex toy, you can get a sex game, which is maybe more playful or a sex lubricant which can seriously elevate your foreplay (Read Why Everyone Needs Lube?).

Extra: recently we reviewed Paula, the kegel kitty. This toy can be awesome for your partner as it has many health benefits, however, Paula is controlled by a remote making it such an interesting choice for partner play. She wears it, your control it.

8. Cooking

The fastest way to one’s heart is through his stomach.

Now I am not suggesting that you become a professional chef. However, one of the greatest turn-ons for women is watching their man cook. Being able to cook makes you look capable – makes you look like a man.

If a man can cook, then half the battle is won. Make an effort to learn a few dishes. Give her a surprise. It may not be the best dish but she wouldn’t mind, it’s the effort that counts.

Also, be attentive when she gives you feedback and incorporate it next time. That shows that you value her opinion.

9. Confidence

Nothing beats confidence, even in this day and time. It is the single biggest weapon a man has to woo his lady. Women are overwhelmed by watching a confident man.

However, do not mistake this as arrogance. There is a thin line between arrogance and confidence. I am talking about quiet confidence.

A quality that only comes from within, it is something you nurture. Action speaking better than words is an example of quiet confidence.

10. Touch

Women love sensual touches, all the way from romantic, vanilla touches to kinky, inappropriate ones.

Hold her hands, massage her shoulders, giver her a peck on the cheeks, remind her of your touch, often.

Tip: put an old sheet on the table and massage your partner. The point here is not even in giving the perfect massage – it is about taking initiative and being confident.

And I don’t think I need to tell you how amazing is to massage your oiled partner, do I?