Did you make any resolutions for the New Year? Kudos if you’ve decided to stop smoking or work out every day, but I’ve got a more interesting prospect for you.
Turn up the heat between the sheets and discover 5 sex skills to master in 2025 for a hot new you.
How to master new sex skills
If you want to add some pizzazz to the way you get it on, mastering new sex skills is the way to do it. Start by having a frank discussion with your partner. This isn’t always easy, but if you’re both open and honest about your desires, you’re more likely to meet one another’s sexual needs.
Even if you consider yourself a bit of a sexpert (lucky you) it’s worth doing your homework. This is the perfect excuse to read erotic novels, watch porn movies, and browse naughty websites. Expand your sexual horizons, discover new ways to play, and brush up on sex skills.
Masturbation is a great way to awaken your sexual desires too. Arouse your senses by touching and caressing yourself. Play with your pussy, tug your cock, finger your ass, or get busy with your favorite sex toy, if you know how to please yourself you can use your knowledge to boost your sexual skill set and thrill your lover too.
Five of the best sex skills for you to master
Need a little inspiration? Here are five of the best sex skills to master in a new year to make sure the year goes with a bang.
Embrace edging
You’re nearly there, your lover is using a wand to tease your pussy and you’re aching to cum. You’re moaning softly but just as you’re about to pop, the toy slows its rhythmical throb and eases slightly away. You’re left wanting more as the moment passes, but then the wand buzzes back to life and your pussy regains that pre-orgasm glow.
Welcome to edging, the sexual skill of intentionally bringing your lover (or yourself) right to the edge of a climax, and then pausing, before going at it again. It’s frustrating to the receiver, but do it right and your lover will enjoy an explosive climax when you do allow them to let go. If you’re edging yourself, add extra fun by setting a timer and seeing if you can keep edging until the alarm sounds.
Do the dirty
Silent sex is perfect for clandestine sexual moments, but moaning, groaning, and dirty talk can add a new dimension. You don’t need to write a porno script to master this sex skill, dirty talk can be as simple as telling your lover what naughty things you would like to do to them. Whisper how much you love their body and how you’re yearning to touch them all over, or let them know how turned on you are at the thought of pulling down their undies and sucking their hard cock.
If you’re not one for being vocal, sexting could be your new friend. Exchanging rude messages with your partner is a great way to build sexual tension and add a spark when you’re away from one another. Keep it simple e.g. “I’ll be home in an hour, and I’m going to fuck you hard.” should be enough to set pulses racing.
Appreciate anal
If you’ve been too shy to engage in bum fun it’s time to say goodbye to your fears and get to the bottom of anal play. Anal sex skills don’t just revolve around perfecting the art of plunging a cock or dildo into your lover’s butt hole, there are plenty of ways to deliver anal pleasure.
Anal rimming involves licking, sucking ad kissing the asshole to stimulate the anus. Use your tongue and lips to tease and torment your lover, and enjoy watching them squirm as they enjoy the pleasurable sensations. There’s also anal fingering – using a finger or two to tickle the outer rim before insertion. Use plenty of lube for this and take your time.
Take up tantric
It’s not new, but if you can master this mindful method you’ll be rewarded with a fantastic fuck. Tantric sex combines sexuality with mindfulness and spirituality, and you’ll need to slow it all down to ace this sex skill. Tantric is more of a marathon than a sprint, with a focus on embracing the sexual experience rather than just racing to a climax. You can try meditation, or breathing techniques to help master this sex skill, but if that sounds a bit hippy-dippy enhance your sexual enlightenment by playing with yourself.
You can also dip into tantric sex skills by getting intimate with your lover. You might be eager to rip each other’s clothes off and fuck like rabbits but take your time and enjoy touching and caressing. A full body massage works wonders for this, just stripping off and taking turns fondling and stroking can multiply sexual sensations and heighten pleasure levels.
Invest in internal orgasms
Clitoral stimulation has long been heralded as the gateway to a knee-trembling orgasm, but there’s another way to get your kicks. The word on the street is that swapping the clitty climax for an internal orgasm will reward you with a more intense experience. The internal orgasm satisfies G-Spot and cervix stimulation for a deeper climax.
Get your hands on a good dildo (straight and long works well) or try out a G-Spot vibrator to hit the spot, and don’t be afraid to try out different positions. This sex skill might not be the easiest to tick off the list, but it’s worth the effort.
Why it’s important to master new sex skills
American industrialist Henry Ford hit the nail on the head “If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you always got.”
This applies to everything, including your sex life. If you want a bold and sexy new you, you’re going to have to put in the work.
Learning new sex skills can boost your self-esteem, lead to better orgasms, and help you build emotional intimacy with your lover. Ready to rock and roll?
Then master these 5 sex skills in 2025 and kick your new year off in style.
By Astolaine.
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