Abstaining from masturbation and sex can be challenging, but with a chastity cage locked onto your cock you can’t play with yourself, and no one else can play with you either. Usually made from plastic or metal and shaped to resemble the penis, cock cages are designed to fit snugly, with a ring encircling the scrotum and the base of the penis.
With the dick securely fastened, it’s impossible for it to be sexually stimulated, which means zero orgasms until the enclosure is removed. So why would anyone want to succumb this type of sexual torture? For a start being teased and tormented can be exhilarating, the desperation to cum providing powerful sexual thrills. There’s also an element of power exchange, with your dick locked in a cage you are at the mercy of the keyholder and you can’t cum until they allow it!
For some, chastity is sexual game play but for others it’s a lifestyle choice. Lifestylers wear their chastity devices 24/7 or for long periods of time, and players tend to use chastity as part of a short-term BDSM scenario or sexual game. You can engage in chastity with a lover or go it alone, whichever way you play orgasm denial can open the door to a knee trembling climax. Before you shoot your load let’s explore a handful of cage play ideas…
Chastity cage play ideas
Spin the wheel
Lock your cock into the cage and spin the wheel to find out your fate. You’ll need to get creative and craft a cardboard or wooden wheel complete with a spinner (you can look online to find out how to make one). Each segment relates to what happens next e.g., spin red and you’re in chastity for a week, spin blue and you’ll be forced to watch back-to-back porn movies all night whilst you’re safely encased etc.
Roll the dice
Leave destiny to chance by rolling the dice when wearing your chastity device. The keyholder decides what each number represents e.g., rolling a number 1 equals an hour of sexual teasing.
This might include the submissive being kissed, fondled and stroked but not being allowed to cum. Rolling a number 2 could equal a month of chastity and a 3 might equal giving oral to the keyholder, and so on.
Nice and icy
You’ve been locked in your cage for two weeks and you’re now feeling frustrated and ready to shoot your load. The keyholder places the key within touching distance and you’re desperate to unlock yourself, but there’s one problem, the key is encased in ice. You can unfasten the cage, but you’ll have to melt the ice first, and that won’t be easy as you’re not allowed to use anything apart from your own body heat to do the deed! You can play this naughty game with your lover or play alone.
Hide and seek
A game for two or more people, you’re locked into your cage and close your eyes as the key is hidden. This game can be made easier by hiding the key in a certain room and playing hot and cold so you can work out where it’s located. Alternatively, the Dom can make the game more challenging by putting their feet up and leaving the sub to it. If the key hasn’t been located within a set time (perhaps two hours if the Dom’s feeling generous) the submissive has to stay locked in his cage for the entire week.
The real deal
How about a bucket full of keys but only one that opens the lock? This one is harsh as you could find themself scrambling through the bucket for a long time (depending on how many keys are thrown in the pot)! The Dom can ramp things up by filling the bucket with cold baked beans, custard or mucky stuff and watch you mooch in the mess to find the right key.
Race against time
This one involves being locked in chastity for a period and then being released, on the understanding you’ll have to cum within a set time. The stopwatch is switched on with a timer set for 60 seconds, can you jerk off and spunk before the alarm sounds?
If not you’re straight back in the cage and won’t get to try again for at least three days. Managed to shoot your load in time? That’s great, but now you’re going to have to drop to knees and clean up the mess with your tongue! As a special reward you can put the cage back on for another day too.
Choose your chore
What’s better than being locked in chastity? How about being locked in chastity and being forced to perform chores. The keyholder chooses the chores – the list might include cleaning the toilet with a toothbrush, scrubbing the floors, washing the car or weeding the garden. The cage won’t be removed until you carry out the chosen task(s) to the required standard. Alternatively, you might be made to carry out mindless tasks whilst wearing the cage, this can include writing lines, standing in the corner or counting grains of rice.
Earn your freedom
Want out of your cage? Then you have to earn it! This game can be used as a motivator to improve yourself so if you’re keen to lose weight, exercise more often, get more sleep etc chastity could be the answer. The keyholder sets the goals and you earn a point each time you progress, e.g., if your goal is to go to the gym three times a week you earn a point each time you go. Once you’ve reached your target e.g., six points you can remove the cage to relieve yourself. The cage then goes back on until the keyholder is satisfied you’re committed to reaching your target(s).
Ready to try these chastity cage play ideas?
Cage chastity can provoke a strong reaction, as the wearer you’ll feel frustrated and sexually aroused by orgasm denial, and as the keyholder you get a kick out of being in control. If you’re playing solo, you’ll get to enjoy both roles!
Interested in exploring new concepts but lack the right equipment? Click the link to browse Lovehoney’s range of cock cages.
By Astolaine.
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