BDSM lovers know and enjoy what the abbreviation stands for – Bondage, Discipline, Domination & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. Some like to actively try these elements while others often read BDSM books.
Oftentimes, instances of such themes are used in ample amounts with the characters fully immersed in a certain lifestyle.
BDSM has an uncanny amount of following, both apparent and clandestine. Many of the submerged followers read the texts just for the literary fantasy and “to know more”, while others can see their sexual predilections coming to life with each page.
Thankfully, more authors have been open to writing on such themes and even cater to diverse needs.
So, even if you are a BDSM veteran who has tasted each flavor of the genre or a newbie who has not yet dipped the toes in the rippling waters, here’s a list of 10 BDSM books that you might like to check off your list.
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Top BDSM books
- Dom’s Guide To BDSM Vol. 1 by Matthew Larocco
- Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
- The BDSM Contract Book by Michelle Fegatofi
- Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Dan and J. D.
- “Kneel” by Dani Rene
- The New Topping Book by Janet W. Hardy
- How to be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM by Morpheous
- In His Silks by Patricia D. Eddy
- The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton
Dom’s Guide To BDSM Vol. 1 by Matthew Larocco
This book is great for all the Masters in training. If you are the guy who has little to no knowledge about how this community works, consider yourself a pro after reading this.
This book shows that being a Master/Dom is rather much more complicated than it seems to be. The task of giving pleasure is challenging. It’s all about giving rather than taking.
Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge by Tristan Taormino
The title of the book says it all. It is a compilation of essays that includes all the how-to tutorials and provoking essays that have an essence of desire and pleasure.
Interestingly, in each chapter, you will find the words of a different master or educator. The book is divided into two sections.
The first one features different techniques illustrated with images.
The second part is composed of role-playing and some personal experiences.
The BDSM Contract Book by Michelle Fegatofi
This book talks of all the know-how of a BDSM contract.
The process of drafting and why it is important to sign between the two parties before delving into a new relationship is all that this book covers.
It is essential to make sure that both parties are aware of the protocols, rules, limitations, and expectations right from the beginning.
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Two Knotty Boys Showing You The Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage by Dan and J. D.
Explained by two Knotty experts, Dan and J.D., the book specializes in showing, step by step, various techniques to tie knots to use them in various bondage roles. The photographs are presented by Larry Utley.
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“Kneel” By Dani Rene
Nate and Eva, although with different troubled pasts, are united with their common passion for BDSM.
Despite being submissive, Eva knows what she wants and usually goes and gets it too. This story also tells about the positive and negative sides of such sexual indulgences.
The book is descriptive with a lot of passion brimming and elaborative scenes that will leave you wanting for more.
The New Topping Book by Janet W. Hardy
More than a decade ago, this BDSM book gave tutorials and educate people on the art of topping in BDSM. What makes it different from others is the fact that it does not just show “how-to”, but “why to.”
This book has all that is needed to know to become a playful player in such a widespread community of BDSM.
How to be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM by Morpheous
This one is definitely for the beginners who want to spice up their lives by traversing the path of BDSM.
Its subtext is pretty apparent. It gives a perfect kickstart. Instead of being all theoretical, it takes a more practical approach to such matters.
Great for couples, this book also describes how everyday objects can be used in BDSM and role-playing.
In His Silks by Patricia D. Eddy
The story revolves around Elizabeth Bennett who was lucky enough to escape an abusive relationship and begin her life in Boston. Everything seems to be a breath of fresh air until she is framed for tax fraud. She encounters someone who could probably save her. Or even destroy her.
That man, Alexander Fairhaven is a millionaire but his luck with women has never been that lucky. This is until Elizabeth falls at his feet and he aches to bring her to the world of submission. Elizabeth must learn to trust this dominant young man in order to save herself.
The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton
The book reached its height in the early 90s when it taught the BDSM community that being a submissive, masochist, or a slave is an art rather than just a role.
The book is divided into two parts. The first part elucidates a different set of skills. The second part describes different scenarios and situations, how to begin and end them, and the ultimate reward.
It is great for someone who has not been tainted by the world of BDSM as of yet but is open to experimenting. It will aid in shedding the first time nervousness and anxiety and dispel the fantasy of new techniques.
These 10 BDSM books would be sufficient enough to keep you satiated for a long time. Pick your favorite one and start reading.
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