My first kiss was a clumsy experience, marked by awkward head tilts, clashing teeth, and tongues dancing gracelessly. Since then, I’ve honed my skills and had my fair share of fun with a bevy of guys and girls. That said, there’s always room for improvement, so I’ll happily continue practicing to learn how to get better at kissing and making out.
When you’re getting it on with your lover, both technique and mindset come into play. Adopting a positive mentality should lead to a better experience, and the easiest way to do that is to stay in the moment. We all lead busy lives, so this isn’t always as easy as it sounds.
I can’t be the only one who’s found myself snogging my lover with one eye on the pan of rice bubbling on the stove. Sometimes you have to swoop in for a quick kiss and grope, but when time allows, I love a lingering make-out.
I find a long and sensual session sexy and relaxing. When I cozy up to my lover, everything seems to slow down. We make out in unison, sharing a comfortable harmony as we kiss and caress. I love that feeling of calm that descends, but inevitably, things sometimes escalate into full-blown lust.
I like to vary the duration of kisses and caresses, from quick pecks to prolonged smooches. A good friend recently shared her top tip for ramping up the smacker-power, and it’s a simple one.
She read about the “six-second kiss” in a magazine and decided to give it a try. As the name suggests, you grab your lover and plant your lips on theirs for a minimum of six seconds. That doesn’t sound like a long time, but apparently, it’s good for building intimacy and getting in sync with your other half.
Kissing and Making Out Positions
The best way to get better at kissing and making out is by experimenting and playing around. To my mind, you can’t beat a good old-fashioned face-to-face kiss if you’re after something with a romantic edge. I like it when my guy places his hands on my waist as I slide mine around his neck. There’s a lovely sense of intimacy, and as we pull closer, I can feel the warmth of his body (and sometimes the stiffness of his cock), against my torso.
This tender embrace also works well if you’re sidling up to one another on a couch. You can lean in and whisper how much you would like to kiss your partner all over, and with any luck, they’ll respond by telling you how much they would like to return the favor!
For a more leisurely approach, you can take the side-by-side approach a step further and lie down next to one another. A gentle morning or evening kissing and caressing session can be the perfect start or end to the day. We cuddle up close and look into each other’s eyes when we want to feel even closer.
While there’s something to be said for tenderness and romance, I do like kissing and making out in a less sedate way. I get turned on when my guy gets handsy with me and takes control.
Being pushed harshly back against the wall or the bed makes me feel vulnerable, and I find that sexy. My man typically places his hands on my shoulders as his face gets closer to mine. As he plants his lips firmly on mine, I start to feel a little breathless, and as he pushes his tongue roughly into my mouth, I sometimes ache between my legs, and we take it further.
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Finding and focusing on your erogenous zones can be hot, too.
My man enjoys having his back stroked and particularly likes it when I scrape my fingernails down his naked flesh. I get a thrill from light, delicate kisses on and around my neck. When my lover slowly nibbles and sucks my neck, I get a tingle that tends to travel to my pussy. I draw the line at a hickey, though – I don’t want a purple bruise on display for everyone to giggle at.
It’s not just about where you lavish your attention, body-wise, it’s also about the setting. Kissing and making out in the bedroom or lounge can feel relaxing and offer a calm space where you can take your time.
If I want to add excitement, I’ll take my kissing and making out somewhere different. Perching on the edge of a kitchen sideboard, with my legs wrapped around my guy, always feels a bit naughty. We’ve also enjoyed a full-on, fierce snog against the hallway wall after a boozy night out, and an intimate make-out session in the shower involving a soapy massage.
If you’re feeling like heading out into the fresh air, or showing off, you could take your kissing and making out outdoors. Take care how far you go when messing about in a public place – if things get too heated, you could attract the wrong sort of attention from the disapproving public. Look for a private spot, such as a secluded beach or shrouded forest, and get it on with abandon.
Ready to kiss and make out with your lover?
There’s no rule book on how to get better at kissing and making out. Like most things in life, it’s all about keeping an open mind, taking a positive approach, and trying out a few different techniques.
Don’t forget to communicate with your lover about what you would like to try and what you’re both enjoying and not enjoying as you go. Above it, have fun and never underestimate the power of a kiss and caress…
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