How To Suck Dick: 5 Oral Sex Tips For Beginners

They’ve been a porn staple since the dawn of time and their popularity is showing no signs of slowing down.

But with all your favorite women’s magazines and social media sites saturated with all the freshest and most mind-boggling ‘tips’, the prospect of becoming a pro-head-giver as a complete beginner can be a little daunting.

Luckily, we’ve gathered up 5 of the easiest and most effective tips to try if you’re new to the world of fellatio.

Ease yourself into it and experience the pleasure that awaits with these tried-and-tested (and totally not scary) ideas!

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Communication is key

As with all sexual acts, effective communication is absolutely essential, and even more important if you’re trying something new.

Before diving into things, take some time to talk to your partner about what you want, what they want, and what you’re both comfortable with.

Once you have your ground rules established, it can be helpful to talk about what your partner enjoys when receiving head.

What sort of pace do they like? Slow and sensual or a little rougher? Do they like deep-throating or ball play or something else entirely?

Having a conversation about what they’re into can really help you personalize the experience and give them some head to remember!

It’s all in the build-up

Honestly, when it comes to blowjobs (or anything else sex-related for that matter) half of the fun is in the anticipation.

Send your partner texts throughout the day reminding them of what you’re going to do to them. By the time they get home, they won’t be able to wait for a second longer.

Equally, why not spend some time building up to things immediately prior to the main event?

Work your way down their body agonizingly slowly, stopping off at their most sensitive spots along the way.

Enjoy the journey and the destination will be even more sweet for the both of you!

Show your enthusiasm

If you’re enjoying yourself, ensure your partner knows it!

The knowledge that you’re actually having a good time and getting pleasure from their pleasure is sure to send them over the edge. Don’t be afraid to talk dirty and tell them straight how much of an amazing time you’re having.

If you’re not so comfortable with this, some passionate eye-contact or moaning can go a *really* long way!

Let the balls into the party

When it comes to blowjobs, it’s not all about the D.

Lots of penis-owners love it when you give their balls a bit of attention. It’s important to discuss this beforehand, though, as this can be a very sensitive area and some people may prefer more gentle treatment!

If they’re into it, simply fondling the balls whilst going to town on their dick, or alternating between the two with your mouth can make for an unforgettable experience.

Tricks of the mouth

However much deep throating is hyped up in the pop culture, actually doing it is a whole different ball game, and it’s very common to struggle with or not enjoy it!

This is absolutely fine and you should never feel pressured to do something you don’t want to.

However, if you do want to give your partner the sensation of deep throating whilst also protecting your gag reflex, there are a few nifty little tricks you can try.

Firstly, use the tongue trick; covering the back of your throat with your tongue can provide a realistic enough illusion that his member is *going the extra mile* without being uncomfortable for you (win-win).

Alternatively, angling yourself so that your partner’s penis hits the roof of your mouth can produce a similar sensation.

The third solution for the problem is deep throat spray (Read The Best Deep Throat Spray)

Honestly, there are all sorts of tips and tricks out there when it comes to giving the best blowjobs, but if you’re new to the whole thing there’s really no need to overwhelm yourself!

After all, the great thing about blowjobs is that you can’t really go wrong. As long as you’ve discussed your likes, dislikes, and boundaries beforehand, there really isn’t such thing as a bad blowjob.

So go ahead, enjoy yourself and most of all – don’t overthink it!