According to many sources, dildos date back to even a couple of thousand years BC.
This is to say that masturbation and self-pleasure have always been activities that people engage in.
Nowadays, the situation is somewhat different, as many people still find it quite uncomfortable to get themselves a sex toy, even though it’s 2020. But it’s because of that that we have to put all our prejudice aside and simply enjoy the activities that can make us happier and, most importantly, keep our bodies healthy. But as more and more people are actually becoming more open towards sex toys, there is one question still hanging in the air – how to choose the best sex toy for you? Take a look at this guide of the things you should and shouldn’t do while buying yourself a nice, long, thick, and high-quality dildo.
If you’re buying your first dildo, you definitely have specific questions regarding the toy’s size. To put it bluntly – the size of your dildo should be the same size as the penis that has been inside of you. The best way to decide on the size is to think about the most pleasurable sexual experience which gave you that fantastic sensation of fullness. Do: Bear in mind that the thickness of the dildo is more important than the actual length. So, it actually doesn’t matter how long a dildo you buy is; you will be able to use it regardless of how much of it you can put inside of yourself. Compare the dildos to the penises of your ex-boyfriends and choose the one you feel most comfortable with. There are also dildos created by male porn stars that you can go with – watch a couple of their movies and see what they’re working with! Don’t: Don’t overdo it with the girth of the dildo. If this is your first toy, make sure to start with baby steps. Get used to the size of the first dildo that you buy and then proceed to something thicker. Another thing that you can choose, apart from the size (and, of course, the shape and the color), is each dildo’s features. Some are relatively simple; others are a bit more interesting and cater to a specific group of people. For example, the dildos with a suction-cup base are very popular right now as you can place them on the wall and change positions while using them. Do: Go crazy with the dildos. For example, opting for vibrating dildos is an amazing thing to do as they will give you that special touch that you might want from time to time, and the good thing is that you can use them without the vibrating features as well. Don’t: Never purchase dildos that are somewhat unrealistic, especially when size and shape are in question. You want something that feels homey, especially for your first dildo. Later on, when you become comfortable with your first dildo, you will be able to get ones that are partnered or anal. Dildos come in many materials and, obviously, some are better than others. Since the choices range from rubber and silicone to soft PVC metal and even glass, it might be quite difficult to make the right choice here. You should make sure you know which materials are safe. Bear in mind that you will also be using lube with your dildo, so you want something that will feel quite realistic and not make you feel uncomfortable. Read Why Everyone Needs Lube? & 6 Best Lubes for Sex to Try in 2020 Do: The best choice for a dildo is a silicone dildo. This is the undisputed king of the bedroom by far, so it’s an excellent choice for your first toy. It doesn’t have any limitations whatsoever, and it’s also great because it’s very flexible and it comes in many sizes and shapes. The material is also very skin-friendly. Don’t: Even though glass dildos look interesting and classy, they are very difficult to use. Moreover, they limit your sexual positions. The same thing goes for metal dildos – they are not very flexible so you have to pay attention to how you’re using them, even though their plus is the fact that they let you play with temperature and can be quite pleasurable. Finding the right dildo is definitely easier than finding the right man – at least the dildo doesn’t talk and will not “call you later” but actually never call you. So, since this toy is going to be your number one ”reliable” boyfriend, you should think carefully about which one you will buy!
How to choose a dildo?
Does size matter?
Good features are what you want
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