When it comes to penetrative sex, how deep is deep enough? I don’t want to feel like I’m being pummelled by a freight train, but I do appreciate a penis thrusting deeply in and out of my pussy.
I’ve discovered that having sex in certain ways delivers a more intense experience, so here are 8 sex positions for deep penetration.
Missionary (with a pillow)
The good old missionary position is sometimes underrated. My lover and I enjoy a simple shag sometimes, and the missionary is easy and does the job. You also get to look longingly at one another whilst having sex, which is a plus point on the intimacy front.
To enhance the depth of penetration, I place a pillow underneath my hips. Lifting the hips allows for a better angle of penetration, and this stimulates my clit more, which equals lots of lovely orgasms.
Crossed ankles missionary
Another take on traditional missionary, this one involves lying on your back as you normally would. However, instead of legs open, wrap your legs around your guy and cross your ankles behind his back.
The crossed ankles missionary will help you appreciate the full length of his shaft as he enters and pumps. You’re also able to get close up and personal, so you can share passionate kisses as well as fuck each other’s brains out.
Eagle
If the missionary position is not adventurous enough for you, take things up a notch and try the eagle. This one is harder to do, and you’ll need a degree of flexibility, but it’s worth it.
To get into the eagle, you’ll need to stick your legs up in the air and bring them toward your body – my lover helps with this by lifting my legs onto his shoulders or by holding my ankles. It feels a bit strange at first, and you mustn’t overstretch, but once you’re up and he’s in, you’ll benefit from the deep thrusting that’s worthy of a great climax.
Doggy Style
I’m down on all fours, and my guy has his hands firmly on my hips as we go for it doggy style.
I moan with pleasure as he fucks me, and as I take a sneaky peek behind me, I can’t help but notice he is looking down at his cock. I smile as I realize he’s revelling in his performance, watching his cock thrust vigorously in and out.
Doggy makes for a deeper experience and enhances pleasure as the cock presses against both the G-Spot and the A-Spot. I’m a fan of G-Spot action as it helps me climax, but I’ve discovered hitting the A-Spot (just beyond the G-Spot, on the sensitive front wall of the vajayjay) can also produce great results.
Since there’s no eye contact, doggy style is also a good option if you’re feeling a bit self-conscious about taking it hard and heavy.
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Standing
Get off the bed and try sex standing up. Stand facing the wall or lean on a robust surface to get your balance. Your man should stand at the rear and enter you from behind. Standing sex rewards me with deep penetration, but it can take some practice to find my equilibrium and the best angle for entry.
Cowgirl
Yee-Haw, riding my man always puts a smile on my face. When I’m on top, I can help guide the penis into place, making sure it’s fully inside and at a comfy angle. I get to wiggle around and take charge of how deep and how fast we fuck, which I find thrilling.
Seesaw
A bit like cowgirl, the seesaw also calls for me to sit astride my lover, but this time I ease myself onboard and then lean back a little. Slanting my upper body backward allows for a more intense experience and a deeper level of penetration.
The Lotus
When I first heard of this position, I worried it might involve a complex yoga pose, due to the zen-like name. You do need to be a bit flexible, but I’m pleased to say the lotus is certainly doable.
My lover sits cross-legged, facing me, and I straddle his lap, wrapping my legs around his waist. This one is perfect for enhanced intimacy, as we are so close to one another and can look intently into each other’s eyes.
I also like that I’m in charge of the pace and depth, so if I want to enjoy deeper thrusts, I can bounce harder!
How deep is your love?
Will it be missionary with a twist, doing it doggy, standing and shagging, or something a little more exotic? Whichever position you choose to adopt in the quest for deeper penetration, there are a few things to keep in mind.
It’s always a good idea to kick-start your sexual adventures with plenty of foreplay. Teasing and toying with your lover will arouse them and help to build sexual tension. When your pussy is wet and his shaft is rock-hard, you’re more likely to have mind-blowing sex that you won’t forget in a hurry.
Going deep doesn’t mean a speedy fuck or penetrating your lover with the ferocity of a pneumatic drill. Penetration should begin slowly, with the cock entering at a comfy angle and easing its way into place. Lube is your friend, so be liberal and use it on each other as part of your foreplay.
Once you’re both ready to roll, slide in and start with shallow thrusts before building into longer, harder, and deeper ones. All cocks and pussies are different, so you have to learn what works for you if you want to go deep – but experimenting is half the fun.
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