Foreplay is more than just a warm up, it’s a key part of good sex. Kissing, caressing, talking dirty, massages, and more, foreplay gets me in the mood both physically and emotionally.
Whether you enjoy fast and furious foreplay, or prefer a more leisurely approach, heavy petting is the perfect way to kick start pleasure and build sexual tension. But what makes foreplay truly memorable?
Read on to find out, and to discover 8 ideas to try tonight.
Sexy scene setting
You can just jump in bed for pre-sex fun, but foreplay can be more fulfilling when you set the scene first. Dim the lighting, put on some sensual mood music, light a scented candle, and make the most of some one-on-one time together.
I find getting dressed up in a racy outfit makes me feel hot (and my lover seems to like it too)! My go-to garb includes a black lacy babydoll coupled with lace-top stockings and a pair of killer heels. A slick of red lippy and a spritz of musky perfume tops things off, and I’m ready for action.
Teasing touches
My senses light up when my lover uses the lightest touch to turn me on. I love to strip off slowly for him, feeling his fingers dance on my naked skin. My guy knows how to use his hands, kneading my flesh, rubbing my shoulders, and placing whisper-like kisses on my neck.
We enjoy massaging one another too, using sensual oils so our hands glide effortlessly. This slow and sexy foreplay feels intimate and boosts our close connection, setting the tone for passionate sex.
Raunchy roleplay
Escape the daily grind and sip your toe in fantasy land with some raunchy roleplay designed to turn you both on. You can use costumes and props to make things more authentic, but you don’t need to take it too seriously.
My current favourite roleplay scenario is Guard and prisoner. I can’t help but get excited as my lover gets strict with me, snapping handcuffs on my wrists before dragging me to an “interrogation room” for a strip search.
Other good roleplay ideas include Master/servant, Boss/employee, Doctor/patient, and Teacher/student.
Fun with food
You can use food to spice up foreplay too. Feed each other tasty treats such as exquisite chocolates and smoked salmon blinis, taking time to savor the flavor and lick your lips seductively.
Food isn’t just for eating, so grab a tray of delicious delicacies including chocolate sauce, whipped cream, strawberries and chilled wine, and head for the bedroom.
Strip off and drizzle the sauce over your naked bodies, before gently licking it off. Whipped cream and strawberries can be used to decorate cocks and pussies, and both make perfect platters. Wash it all down with a glass of chilled fizz.
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Naughty notes
Foreplay can start way before bedroom antics with saucy texts and voice messages.
Send a dirty sext telling your partner exactly what you want to do to them when they get home. Be as graphic as you dare, detailing how you’re going to drop to your knees and suck their cock until they squirt. You can even go old-school by handwriting a naughty note and tucking into their pocket or bag.
If you’re feeling brave send a flirty photo to show your lover what they have to look forward to on their return.
Kissable kink
Incorporate kink into your foreplay with light bondage using silk ties or cuffs. Tying and teasing can be an exhilarating form of foreplay for both of you – whether you’re the one tying or the one being teased.
Spanking can be fun too, and there’s no need to go hardcore. I like it when my partner bends me over his knee, lifts my skirt, pulls down my panties and delivers a few light hand spanks. We both get turned on, and I inevitably end up with red ass cheeks and a wet pussy.
Sexy striptease
Turn each other on by performing a sexy striptease as foreplay. Put on some raunchy music and take off your garments slowly, one by one. It can be fun to get your partner to sit on their hands while you strip, so they can look but not touch.
This builds sexual tension, especially if you rub yourself against your lover and give them a cheeky lap dance too.
Sensual sensory
Tease your partner during foreplay with sensual sensory play. Ease a blindfold over their eyes (reducing their sight will heighten other senses such as sound and touch). Whisper in their ear and spend time caressing your lover before introducing sensory elements such as texture and temperature.
A silky scarf, spiky hairbrush, and a cold leather belt provide different sensations when used to tease bare flesh. Varying the temperature works well too. A freezing ice cube paired with warmed massage oil or a heated towel will turn up the sexual tension.
Fancy some foreplay?
Foreplay should be savored, and isn’t just a starter, it can be just as good as the main course (sometimes it’s even better). Make time for foreplay whenever you can, it can heighten your pleasure, get you both fully revved up for intercourse and strengthen your connection.
Whether you class foreplay as just touching and kissing, or prefer to bring in roleplay or sensory fun, there are plenty of ways to get the party started.
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