How To Please Your Man: 7 Ways To Satisfy Him Tonight

There is a popular belief that men are simple in terms of sexual pleasure, however, I must say that’s not 100% true. Yes, men surely love sex in its simplest form, but they also love the tiny, NEW, exciting details. They love it when you show effort in their pleasure.

Before we dive into today’s list, here are some articles that might help you in finding how to please your man. The great list of kinky sex ideas will surely inspire you, as well as the sex bucket list and 30-day sex challenge.

Or, get a sex toy and surprise your partner – that’s a proven technique.

How to please your man?

1. Don’t ignore the balls

Testicles might not be the most appealing part of a man’s body, but they excite the man enough to pass the pleasure currents to the penis. Have in mind that the scrotum is highly sensitive as it has tissues and nerves all around it and the skin is very loose.

You got to be very soft with your touches and your licking. Even if you dare to bite into them, make sure it is very gentle so your partner feels only pleasure and not pain.

The different techniques that you can try with the balls are: cupping the balls, sucking the balls, massaging gently, lightly tugging the balls.

Read Playing With A Guy’s Balls

2. Become a blow-job expert

A variety of sources exist to teach you how to become better in BJs, many of which are free and available online.

And there are several fields to cover: different parts of the penis have different sensitivity, techniques, strokes, should you suck, lick, or do both, and when?… You get the point. There is a whole science behind BJs.

Practice? Use a peeled banana as it perfectly resembles a penis.

Thinking about a step further? Your partner will undoubtedly want to try deepthroating. If you’re not familiar with it, get a deep throat spray (throat numbing spray) and read this great post from Bad Girl’s Bible on the topic. We also liked Cosmopolitan’s post on deepthroating.

3. New sex position

Surprise your partner with a new sex position.

For example, pick one of the Kama Sutra sex positions and suggest you try one next time you have sex. Tell your partner you always wanted to be fucked like that, or that he’s looking all sexy doing you in that position.

Not only will your partner be pleased if you show extra interest in your sex life but they’ll also be 110% into it after you sprinkle a comment like that.

4. Suggest role-playing

Role-playing may be beneficial for both of you.

Stepping in someone else’s shoes can make a person more relaxed and more open. Your partner might be open to trying new things if he’s the fireman or a detective or he may even share a hidden fantasy.

It is said that erotic role-playing is a great way of overcoming sexual inhibitions.

What’s also appealing is the fact that ERP, or erotic role-playing, is on the cheaper side, is also hilarious, and is incredibly hot.

We wrote about role-playing student and teacher scenario for 1000sextips.com. The scene was easy to set up, and we already had props and clothes for the scenario (which are BTW heels, a skirt, and a wooden ruler).

We laughed, the whole scene was sexy and I did make Luka eat my pussy.

Lucky for you, we have an extensive erotic role-playing guide with 37 scenarios so check that out.

5. Take sex out of the bedroom

Changing your usual place is a surefire way to shake up your sex life.

And you don’t have to go far. Start with the bathroom, living room, or kitchen (my favorite).

After you’ve conquered all the other rooms in your house, go outside. Places like empty beaches, hotel rooms, woods, train bathroom, pool are all great choices. Of course, scan the place before so you’re sure there is nobody else around.

Which is another beauty of outdoor sex – the risk of getting caught.

All in all, every time you do something like that, you’ll have a new experience and a memory together. Also, you’ll definitely appreciate sex in your bedroom more than you had.

Why don’t you check the photo list of places to have sex?

6. Sugar on top

This is a nifty ”trick” that your partner will surely love.

When he (or you for that matter) is about to orgasm, increase the intensity and speed of the thrusts. If you’re riding your partner – start riding him harder, doing longer strokes. And be vocal, your partner will love the moaning and the sound of your two bodies pounding at each other.

Same way, if your partner is on top, tell them to start fucking you harder, deeper. Probably, just saying that will be something they will like. Likewise, hold him stronger, push him towards yourself, grab his ass, and stick the penis deeper, bite him… Things like that will blow your partner’s mind and the orgasm will be explosive.

If you don’t mind, let them cum all over your face, boobs, or any other part of your body.

7. Talk dirty to your partner

Vocal. Be more vocal.

And no, talking dirty doesn’t mean you to start insulting, or to use words that you’re not comfortable with using.

For example, you can say something like ”I love how your cock resembles over your pants” and ”you look sexy today and I’m already horny” or you say something dirtier like ”I’m all wet for you” and ”I can’t wait to feel your cock inside me.”

Confidence will shine out of you and we all know that confidence is sexy.

While we have sex, I like to tell him things like ”I love how your cock goes in and out” or ”It feels like it’s made for me.” Simple, yet very intimate and passionate. Gets him all fired up.

Try surprising your partner when he comes home. Dress up sexy, seductively sit on the couch and invite them ”I’m all your to use.” He’ll definitely be very pleased.

So, here above you can see that there are good numbers of ways to please your man in the bed. Make sure you give a try to all these options and spice up your sex life and that of your man too.

That concludes the list of 7 ways how to please your man. Give a try to all the options, your partner will be please and you’ll share more intimate, sexy moments.