The seasonal switch nobody warns you about

One minute you’re strolling in the sunshine, sunglasses on and jacket off, and the next there’s a chill in the air and you’re hankering to hibernate. The shift between summer and autumn often catches me off-guard.

There’s no official changeover date - it’s the seasonal switch nobody warns you about.

With the leaves and the temperature falling simultaneously, I get the chills in more ways than one. The first cold snap brings a blizzard of feelings and a change to my sexual desires.

I find myself wanting to ditch sex on the beach for an intimate candle-light bonk on a furry rug.

Wrap up warm and cozy together

I have a cupboard in my bedroom that’s home to blankets. Fleecy ones, furry ones, woolly ones - you name it I own it. When the season shifts, I pick out a blanket or two to make myself a nest, draping the fabric around my shoulders and over my knees.

Here, I can snuggle up with my partner in our soft cocoon. The warmth provides a shield from the cool air and a chance to get intimate with my sexy guy. We strip off, our naked bodies entwined beneath a fluffy throw, and we have sex.

It’s cozy, cuddly and carnal - seasonal and sexy.

Relish hearty food, and each other

Forget salads and sorbets, when autumn arrives, I want satisfying grub such as chunky soup, homemade stews, filling casseroles and stodgy puddings. This is a chance to hanker around a dining table, lights dimmed, soft music playing and eyes locked as we savor our meal.

Afterwards we can share a cheesy fondue, or he can make me his dessert. I’ll stretch out in front of the fire, naked and smiling as my lover makes good use of a can of whipped cream. Topped with seasonal fruits such as cranberries, figs and grapes, my guy can take his time devouring me.

Hibernate at home or a swanky hotel

I do love a long country hike and a big night out, but when autumn comes, I sometimes feel the need to hide away. The comfy sofa beckons and my idea of a good date is a bucket of popcorn as we snuggle on the sofa.

That said, I’m sure I can manage climbing in the car and heading out, if there’s a luxury hotel room waiting. A sumptuous four poster bed, fluffy bathrobes, and a bottle of champers on ice set the tone for a romantic evening of slow, sensual sex.

If I’m a bad girl he can secure my wrists and ankles to the posts, and my guy can tease and torment me until I squeal with pleasure.

Lower the lights for candlelit canoodling

It’s time to draw the curtains and pull the blinds. As the nights draw in, I love to set the scene for autumn sex with low lamps, the flicker of candlelight, or strings of whimsical fairy lights.

Sex by candlelight turns me on, as the warm and inviting atmosphere softens everything and helps me relax. I enjoy watching our sexy shadows twirl and pirouette on the wall as we move together.

Sometimes we go for an early evening walk too, and now and again we catch a glimpse of another couple making out. Their curtains slightly open, and the lights illuminate the room. We steel a glance, our voyeuristic tendencies propelling us on, and then we go home to fuck - hot and horny thanks to our naughty neighbors!

Temperature play with a nice cup of tea

Gone are the iced coffees and cool smoothies, when autumn rears its head, I want frothy cappuccinos and tea by the bucketload. I cradle my mug, holding it close and enjoying the warm liquid slip down my throat. Taking warm and cold drinks to the bedroom works well too, if you fancy trying out temperature play.

I sip my tea (ensuring it’s not too hot) and hold the liquid in my mouth as I part my lips and gently take my lover’s cock in my mouth. The warmth enhances sensations and my guy groans in pleasure. If I want to change things up, I put down the tea and take a gulp of cool water.

Thrills and chills on Hallow Eve

Halloween and autumn go hand in glove. No matter how old you are you can find the fun in picking the perfect pumpkin for your Halloween decorations.

I like to get creative by carving creatures and scary faces. My lover and I also have a cheeky tradition where we carve rude emblems too - last year’s effort included a pumpkin with a large penis carved in and a nice pair of pumpkin tits!

Then there’s the spooky Halloween events, where you can dress up as a wicked witch, spicy spirit, hungry vampire or a devilish demon. Take your costumes to the bedroom for racy roleplay with a spooky, sexy twist.

Moonlit capers and starlit sex

With the night drawing in earlier it’s the perfect time to wrap up warm and head out into the dark night with your partner. Link arms and go for a brisk walk, pausing for a kiss in a shadowy alleyway. Take a moment to glance up upwards and marvel at the shiny stars.

The crisp air and pitch-black sky provide the perfect canvas for a starlit sky, and bonus points if you can find Orion and Ursa Major (home of the big dipper)! If you get bored of stargazing find a private place away from prying eyes for fast and furious outdoor sex to warm yourselves up.

A sexy seasonal switch to savor

I do love summer, but it’s not all fun in the sun. It’s hot and sweaty and I have to float around in flimsy dresses pretending to play it cool. Sex leaves me panting and exhausted and I don’t want to snuggle up - I just want a cool shower and space!

Autumn is different. It’s cozy with a hint of comfort and a soothing calmness. I can still do sexy, wearing one of his oversize sweaters over my naked body and bending over to show a glimpse of naked thigh and exposed butt cheeks.

We can cozy up in a nest of blankets and make love leisurely by soft candlelight or take long romantic walks in the crisp evening air.

So, here’s to autumn, wrap up warm and hug your loved ones, and don’t forget to brew a cup or two of steaming tea.