Whether you’re a rodeo expert or are new to taking the reins in the bedroom, there’s a reason why cowgirl and reverse cowgirl are two HELLA popular sex positions.
And though there’s plenty to love about getting into the driver’s seat, there’s no denying it can sometimes be a little difficult to navigate.
We’re sure plenty of women can relate to being kind of at a loss as to what exactly to do.
If this is the case for you, it’s nothing to worry about and is actually a super common dilemma. Of course, porn depicts riding dick as effortless and smooth, but the truth is that mastering cowgirl takes a little practice.
Figuring out where to put your hands and how to position yourself alone can feel like an Olympic sport – and that’s before even thinking about moving!
Luckily, when it comes to riding dick like a pro, we’ve got you covered, and if you’ve been anywhere near the internet in the past few years, you’ve likely already heard of this viral trick involving a certain Hawaiian fruit we all know and love.
That’s right, it’s time to spell coconut with your waist!
Yep, you heard it right.
This viral riding tip that took Twitter by storm a few years ago is actually a great place to start if you’re struggling to pin down your signature technique.
For starters, focusing your energy into spelling a word can really help you to ‘get out of your own head’, which even the most experienced cowgirl lovers can fall victim to from time to time.
It’s super easy to start overthinking what your body is doing when you’re on top, and having something to aim for can actually be super helpful.
Because let’s be honest – the idea of riding your man is sexy as hell, but putting it into practice can prove a great deal more difficult.
But why ‘coconut’ specifically?
If you think about it, coconut really is the ideal word to use here. The curves and circles at the beginning of the word, followed by the more ‘up and down’ motions in the second half are a recipe for a whole load of fun.
Having said that, you really can spell any word you like. In fact, spelling out your name can be a really good place to start. Equally, long words with lots of letters tend to work particularly well.
And who says you need to stop at one word, either? Don’t be shy, write a novel (if your man can make it that long)!
This nifty little trick is 100% worth a try, but it’s important to be careful, too.
There are a couple of things to be aware of when trying out this viral sex tip:
- Don’t be overly forceful when riding, particularly if you’re changing directions a lot. After all, a fractured penis is a sure-fire mood killer.
- Equally, make sure your partner enjoys changes in rhythm and direction whilst you’re riding. Some guys prefer a more consistent motion and find alternating uncomfortable.
- If you’re trying this out for the first time, communication is key – check-in with your partner throughout (and make sure you’re enjoying it, too!)
With that in mind, we’d definitely recommend giving this a go – particularly if you’re a little nervous about being on top.
Honestly, who knew spelling could ever be this fun?
Not us – but we’re definitely here for it!
Have you or your partner ever tried this viral trick? If so, let us know how you feel about it – does it leave you coco(nut)ty or do you prefer something with fewer twists and turns?
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