Be More Kinky App Review

Hello Sexplorers, welcome back!

Today I’ve got a special treat for you. No toy this time — we’re switching things up with something a little different, but just as fun.

What could it be, you ask? Well, in this digital world of ours… of course it’s an app.

BeMoreKinky is a BDSM app built for curious, kinky couples — and we had so much fun testing it. Honestly, we’ll be using it again (and again).

Ready to dive in?

BeMoreKinky review in short

Things we like about BeMoreKinky

I really like the whole concept — especially being able to create my ideal play plan and share it with my partner. There’s something fun about the anticipation, too, just waiting for the agreed play to come around. The illustrations are lovely, the overall design feels clean and inviting, and the amount of educational content is impressive.

Things we disliked about BeMoreKinky

There were a few downsides for me — some lagging and occasional notification issues, which I’m hoping will get ironed out in future updates. The app also feels a bit light at the moment, more geared toward beginners than seasoned players.

Key takeaway from BeMoreKinky review

Being able to plan out a play, schedule it, and actually know what’s waiting for you is absolutely amazing for me. Life gets busy, and it’s so easy to let our relationship and our desires slip to the bottom of the list. This feels like a simple, intentional way to set something up that we’re both looking forward to — a little built-in moment where we get to focus on us.

What exactly is BeMoreKinky app?

Sometimes we’re not even sure what we want to try — or we can’t quite put it into words. And sometimes there’s that tiny worry in the back of our mind: How will my partner react if I tell them this turns me on?

That’s exactly where this app shines. BeMoreKinky helps couples talk about desires and fantasies that might feel awkward, intimidating, or just hard to articulate.

It gives you a shared space to explore everything you’re curious about, all in one place — without pressure, without overthinking, and with a whole lot more clarity.

How does BeMoreKinky work?

Quizzes

It all starts with a quiz. The first one guided me through my own ideal patterns — energy levels, timing, and how intimacy naturally fits into my life.

It asked things like:

What’s my ideal frequency for intimacy?
How do I prefer to approach scheduling intimate time?
When do I usually have the most energy for intimacy?

There are many more quizzes available, each focusing on different areas of play — from safety knowledge to specific kink-related themes and dynamics.

The results gave me a pretty clear picture of where I’m already confident and what areas I could explore or improve, along with simple guidelines to help me build on those skills.

Rating activities

After finishing the quiz, the next step was rating different activities. The app organizes everything into main categories like sensation play, soft domination and praise, and bondage.

Within each of those, I could choose whether I was looking at dominant or submissive activities. And inside the main categories, there are even more sub-categories.

For example, under sensation play I saw things like positions, sensory play, impact play, and temperature play.

From there, each activity is simply rated with a yes or no. Once I rate something, it becomes part of my profile.

Proposing a play

Now I can propose a play plan to my partner.

The plan is set by choosing a day and selecting one or more activities that feel exciting to explore, then sending the proposal so they know exactly what I’m in the mood to try.

When selecting activities, the app allows switching between all liked activities or partner matches, which shows only the activities we both liked.

I really like this part because it lets me reveal only as much as I feel comfortable with in that moment. I can play it safe and stick to a matched activity, or I can be bold and throw in something a little more risky.

The app also lets me add a note to the proposal, which is great for sharing extra details or describing how I imagine the scene.

Accepting play proposal

Once my partner accepts the play plan, he can rate the activities I suggested. That way, I get a clear sense of what he’s excited about, what he’s neutral on, and what doesn’t really interest him — which makes it much easier for both of us to know what to expect.

We did run into a few hiccups along the way: some ratings didn’t show up, and occasionally notifications didn’t come through.

It seems like these are just small bugs the team is still ironing out, and their customer service was quick to respond and help sort things out.

Other features in BeMoreKinky App

Adding custom activity

This one is my favorite!

There’s already a solid number of activities available, but let’s be honest — there’s always room for more.

The creators are actively expanding the library, and a big update is on the way. They’re planning to add around 500 new activities over the next two months, which is honestly pretty exciting. I’m really looking forward to seeing what they come up with next.

In the meantime, the option to add custom activities is a huge win. Even if the app had a million options, there are moments when I’m craving something very specific — and being able to create exactly what I have in mind makes the experience feel so much more personal and flexible.

Partner hub

In the Partner Hub, I can see my partner’s liked activities and quiz answers. At first, this felt a bit strange because earlier in the app you only see the activities you both matched on, and everything else stays private. But here, the full list is visible.

Personally, I don’t see this as a problem — actually, I think it’s a good thing. It gives a complete picture of what they’re into, and I’ve always believed there shouldn’t be secrets between partners when it comes to sex.

I feel comfortable with my partner, so having him see all of my answers and activities doesn’t bother me at all.

If anything, I prefer it. This way he can see exactly what interests me and what I’d like to explore, and then decide whether it’s something he’s excited to give.

Labs hub

The Labs Hub is still a work in progress, but there are already a few experiments to play with — things like speaking practice for subs, a habit tracker, and an AI scene builder.

The scene builder feels a bit like using ChatGPT, it can spark some ideas, but in my opinion it doesn’t work all that well yet.

My favorite part of the Labs Hub is actually the articles and educational content. There’s a huge library covering all kinds of kinks and dynamics, and it’s genuinely nice having all that information collected in one place.

The creators are collaborating with educators in the kink space, and they’re planning to bring more long-form, instructional content to the app soon — which I think is a great direction.

One thing I’d love to see in future updates: having quiz results link directly to the relevant articles they already have. That would tie everything together..

Fun ways we used BeMoreKinky app

Simple play by combining activities

First, I created a simple proposal by combining a few activities. This play focused on me being spanked in an over-the-knee position, counting the strokes aloud, and being called a good girl.

Adding custom activities

Our second play mixed existing activities with a few custom ones. The proposal was a maid and homeowner roleplay, where the maid gets seduced, eaten out, and then fucked in a standing doggy position.

Extended play

For our extended play, we put together a long list of activities, including aftercare.

It started with a sensual massage — lots of teasing, slow touches everywhere, just enough to build tension but not enough to come. Then things escalated into intense face-fucking, followed by sex in a few different positions.

Aftercare was just as important: being wrapped in a blanket, cuddling, and enjoying snacks and tea together.

Final words

I really like the whole concept and the idea behind the app, and I appreciate that it keeps getting updated with new features and content.

There are still a few tweaks I’d love to see — like being able to delete accepted proposals if I want to adjust them, or rearrange activities in a specific order.

Overall, I definitely see myself using this app often, and I’m hopeful it will keep getting better and better over time.