How To Play With Sex Dolls, Alone Or With A Partner

I’m lucky enough to enjoy a buoyant sex life with my other half, we’ve had a few threesomes and one of the most memorable was with a very sexy lady called Jayden. With her lush dark locks, curvy butt, and generous boobs, Jayden ticked all our boxes looks-wise, and she was great in bed too. And today, I’m going to share with you how to play with a sex doll.

We had a fabulous evening of play and afterward, we cleaned Jayden up, returned her to her cupboard, and went out for dinner. I should probably point out that you don’t need to worry, she is not a sex slave, Jayden is a sex doll and a very realistic one at that.

In the past sex dolls were synonymous with rowdy stag parties and viewed as funny rather than sexy. You had to huff and puff to blow them up and the end result was hardly worth the effort. Once inflated you were met with a shiny plastic doll with a face full of tacky makeup and three unenticing holes.

Thankfully, sex dolls have come a long way – inflatable dollies still exist, but you’ll also find a high-quality range of life-like beauties available to purchase, and they come in all shapes and sizes. The unyielding plastic has been replaced by TPE and soft silicone, so the sex dolls of today not only look like real human beings, they feel like the real deal too.

Nowadays, manufacturers can make your sex doll to your exacting specifications, meaning you can choose the gender, creed, hair style, body shape, etc You can even opt for a fixed or removable vagina and buy dolls that can be heated to body temperature for added realism.

Dolls can enhance your sex life, whether you’re playing solo or partnered up.

How to play with a sex doll – alone

If you’re a singleton you don’t have to go to the trouble of perusing hook-up apps or wining and dining your new beau. Invest in a sex doll and you’ve got a ready-made lover who’s up for anything, so you can stroke, fondle, squeeze, and fuck your new friend however and wherever you like.

If you’re lacking in confidence in the sex department a sex doll can do wonders for your poise and self-esteem. You can take the lead, honing your love-making skills and trying out new positions and methods with an amenable partner. You won’t need to worry if you fumble or mess up – your cooperative new lover won’t criticize or complain!

Sex dolls are a great way of exploring and playing with different body types that you have not been able to do so far. My partner loved Thea, Burgess, and Emma who are big, sexy girls.

Sex dolls can also prove useful for those who suffer from premature ejaculation. If you’re prone to shooting your load too soon you can use the doll to practice and improve your technique. The good news is there’s no pressure to perform spot-on every time and you can keep trying until you’re comfortable and self-assured in your performance.

How to play with a sex doll – with a partner

Sex dolls are useful and fun for solo players, but they can also be enjoyed by those in a partnership or even during group play. Despite our best intentions we all go throw sexual slumps. With busy working lives, chores, and family commitments sex can become part of a routine. You might find yourselves sticking to tried and tested times and methods, so maybe it’s time to say goodbye to Saturday night missionary position sex in favor of something a little racier.

Threesomes are enjoyed by thrill-seekers all over the world, but they do come with risks and challenges. Inevitably one person can end up feeling left out, but with a sex doll, you don’t have to worry about your third wheel getting offended or feeling as though they aren’t getting enough attention. As I mentioned previously, my partner and I had a great threesome with Jayden, she loved getting between us, and we didn’t have to worry if she was ok, or having a great time.

Owning a sex doll allows you to get intimate with one another while having fun. You can masturbate whilst your lover plays with the sex doll and vice versa. Or you can masturbate with each other as you both toy with your silicone sex pot! The doll could be used as part of the warm act to enhance foreplay, or you can use it for the main event and go all the way.

Sex dolls also allow you to indulge in your fantasies and try out new sexual exploits. For instance, if one of you wants to try out anal sex and the other is reluctant you can use your sex doll instead. Role-play can be fun too, why not add an edge to the straightforward threesome? You could devise a scenario involving the doll – perhaps she’s a long-lost friend visiting you and your lover, and she’s slipped into your bed for naughty sex after you’ve all had one too many tequilas.

Yor Forger, Marleen, Sophiemina, and Kiki were perfect for scenarios we had in our minds. My partner leaned towards Vickie as his fantasies included a gym-going neighbor who is also slutty at the same time.

If you’re feeling adventurous you can take role-play one step further by adding BDSM into the mix. If you like the idea of bondage you can try out the ropes, handcuffs, hoods, and blindfolds on your sex doll before you experiment on each other. If you’ve bought a new toy, you can give it a test run on your sex doll lover too, this will help you to familiarise yourself with the gadget and what it can do.

So, we’ve surmised that you can play solo, or play with a sex doll and your partner to spice up your sex life.

If it rocks your boat, you can even involve your doll in a group session with a few special friends! You can rest easy you won’t need to do anything to keep your sex doll happy, but you will have to give it some TLC. Pay attention to product hygiene and maintenance and your sex dolly will be your good friend and playmate for a long time.

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