How To Use Lube 29 Different Ways

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Hey everyone, let’s chat about lube! We’ve got some cool tips on how to use lube in 30 different ways that are all about great fun and pleasure.

It’s not just the usual stuff – we’re talking about some creative ideas to spice things up. So, grab your (lube) bottle, and let’s dive into these practical tips!

Our experience with lube

In our sexploring adventures, lube has been a game-changer. We have tried all kinds of lubes and each has uniquely changed and improved our experience. This sexploration deepened our understanding of pleasure and sexual comfort.

The following insights come from our own personal experiences and thorough research, offering you fun and practical advice to improve your own adventures.

False belief about using lubes

Lube is unfortunately one of the most underrated tools in the bedroom, and if you haven’t already discovered this not-so-secret gem, you need to get on it ASAP.

This misconception often stems from the false belief that needing lube means you’re not aroused enough, or you’re not turning on your partner adequately, which couldn’t be further from the truth. In reality, using lube is all about enhancing the experience for everyone involved.

It’s about comfort, pleasure, and exploring new ways of pleasuring your partner and you.

So, let’s toss out those outdated notions and continue on how to use lube.

We can tell you that whatever it is you’re into, the lube can enhance the experience tenfold.

29 sexy ways to use lube

We love playing with lube a LOT. Whenever Luka has the opportunity, he covers me in lube, from my tits to my ass and everything in between – it turns into a slippery playground, and it’s incredibly sexy. He is no stranger to lube either especially when I start pulling off my jerking-off combos.

Go for it but for this kind of play, you will need one of those waterproof sex sheets because otherwise you will ruin your sheets and possibly the mattresses.

Here’s how we used lube so far:

Lube and sex toys

We add a generous amount when playing with butt plugs or when we use dildos anally.

Not there yet? Learn how to prepare for anal and how to have anal orgasm.

Finger up your ass

If you’re not there yet and anal play is still on your to-do/bucket list, consider exploring how anal feels by lubing up one finger or small anal-safe toy and slowly and gently inserting it.

Fingerbanging and lube

Luka uses it while he fingers me as an addition to my natural lubrication.

Learn fingering techniques!

Handjobs and lube

As mentioned above, I use it while combining different handjob techniques,

Pre-BJ massage

I expand the regular handjob session by giving Luka an erotic pre-BJ massage. I start with his thighs and hips and take my sweet time before touching his, by that time, rock-hard cock. 

Teasing the clitoris

We rock that lube every time we play with vibrators. I love it when it glides over my clitoris and in and out of me. It feels effortless and pleasurable. However, for this just be sure to use a water-based lube if the toy is silicone to avoid deterioration of the material.

For masturbation

During masturbation and any kind of solo play actually. This is extra valuable if you have dry hands at the moment.

Lube the tits

Before letting Luka jump on my tits, I lube them up GENEROUSLY and thoroughly massage the lube all over. He loves the show.

Have them lube your tits

Have your partner do the same to you – relax and let them do the work.

Titty fuck

Heavily lubed tits are perfect for a good titty fuck. Heavily lubed nipples are great for tapping with hard cock – you should try it, And not just tapping, try weaving left to right, circling and pressing in. 

Read more about breast play – lube and breast play are a perfect match.

Lube trails

Create a trail on your body using a flavored lube and have your partner lick it off. Make sure the trail hits all the good spots.

Massage date night

We give each other sensual massages with it – none of us is a trained masseuse however you don’t need training to explore your partner’s lubed-up body with your hands, just a pinch of imagination.

Lube the clit and lick it

Besides honey, I tried dropping a few drops of kinda weird kinda delicious Strawberry flavored lubricant onto my clitoris after which Luka licked it well.

Cake flavored lubricant

For his birthday, I served myself as his birthday cake and covered myself in this cringe-tasting birthday cake-flavored lubricant. He smashed me as the tastiest cake. Weird but also hot.

Anal in the shower

We fucked anally in the shower – but then we used Sliquid’s silicone-based lubricant as water can wash water-based lubricant easily. A

Silicone lube for all anal

After the shower anal, we used continued using silicone lube for anal in general because it feels great and the whole thing stays lubed up for a longer period. 

Perineum massage

I sometimes massage Luka’s lubed-up perineum whilst I go down on him. And since he keeps asking for it, I would say it feels great.

Nipples and tickling lube

Luka knows how much I like my nipples stimulated a hundred different ways so he got us the tickling lube to play with my nipples. AMAZING!

Frozen lubricant

Talking about playing with my nipples. Luka froze lubricant cubes and teased my nipples with them. The cubes were melting and the cold lube slowly dripped on my belly and below.

Warming lube

More on the nipples: Luka doused my tits and nipples in warming lube and then blew on them. The pleasurably shocking contrast made me squirm.

Wrestling

Wrestling does not interest me at all – unless it includes loads of lube and fucking on the floor. Again, you need waterproof sex sheets for this adventure.

Just the tip

Just the tip fucking is something that was cute. Luke applied lube to the tip of his cock and gently nudged the tip in and out.

Lubed up 69

69 is the sex position we really like indulging in – and honestly, we don’t see why people think it is overrated – especially with the lubed-up desserts.

Lube tasting

We had a lube-tasting night where we blindfolded each other and served each other different flavored lubes and of course, our delicious genitalia.

This Sportsheets blindfold is the best for situations when you don’t want your partner to see anything. It’s the only blindfold we have.

Lube as lip gloss

 I used lube as a lip gloss before I went down on him. Flavored lubes are great for that as they can be eaten.

Lubed up condom

Luka sometimes puts a small amount of water-based lube inside a condom to increase comfort and pleasure. While it makes everything little bit better, it is not really necessary.

Pina-colada cock

As a reward for being a good girl, I got to suck his Pina colada-flavored cock.

Lingam massage

Sometimes, I treat Luka with a good, sensual Lingam massage.

Gentle FemDom handjob

Talking about the handjobs: jerking him off with the tingling lubricant while he’s the little spoon is really cute and sexy. If your partner is into exploring sensual FemDom, give this position a try.

Mirror love

We put a mirror – yes, a mirror – in front of us, Luka sat comfortably behind me and I positioned myself, facing the same direction, between his legs. Using both of his hands he massaged my clitoris and my pussy while playing with and pinching my nipples – while we were looking at each other in the mirror. HOT HOT HOT.

Choosing a new lube

Often, as a prelude to the actual event of trying (new) lube, we cuddle up on the couch and choose the lube together. Conversations about how we are going to use the lube are so sexy and serve as verbal foreplay. To make him even more horny I continue teasing him with various sexts until we lube is in our hands.

Lube is like beans

Get yourself a good water-based lube – to have. Think of it like stocking the beans and tomato sauce. It’s important to always have some at home. We like having it nearby and ready to use.

Lovehoney’s water lube and Sliquid’s Organics lube are both great lubes to have at home.

Flavored lubes and silicone lubes are hot but they’re situation oriented. Also, know that flavored lubes for the most part do not taste good, however, the notion of a flavor makes it great for fun games. Flavored lubes also often have sugar – you should be mindful of that if you’re prone to infections.

The homemade lubes might be a great choice, if you’re into that, however, make sure the maker is reputable and is not reselling low-quality lubes. Lubes that come in jars are not very hygienic as you keep putting the hand in it, the hand that went places.

How to use lube – safely

If you’re planning on introducing a new lube into your sex life, make sure to follow these simple rules:

Read lube ingredients and look for any potential allergens or irritants.

Do a patch test in advance to ensure you or your partner aren’t sensitive to any of the ingredients.

If you’re using condoms, make sure to opt for a water-based lube, as the silicone-based versions can break them down.

Let your partner know if you’re going to be using a warming or cooling lube and check they’re ok with these sorts of sensations.

Don’t hesitate to add more lube than what you think is necessary.

Be mindful of the usage/cleanup.

More ways to use lube

Before I sign off, I want to point you to our list of kinky sex ideas for adventurous couples. These might spark your imagination and help you figure out more ways to incorporate more lube into your life.

And then, when you have gathered the ideas you want to cross off, add them to the list. Because there is something so rewarding about crossing things off the list, right?

If you don’t have a list, check out how we made our sex bucket list and what we put on it.

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