How To Play With Breasts: 6 Steps To Success

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Regardless of sexual orientation or gender, I think we can all agree that boobs are great. But how to play with breasts is the question.

Introducing breast play to the bedroom is almost always a great idea, but what is the best way to give your partner maximum pleasure in the boob department?

Truthfully, this will completely vary from person to person, but there are a few things to keep in mind if you’re looking to become a breast-play mastermind.

Here are our top 6 tips on how to play with breasts and blow your partner’s mind!

Breast play tips:

Check-in

First thing’s first, have a chat with your partner about what they like when it comes to their boobs.

Everyone is completely different, with vastly varying sensitivities and preferences. Just because your ex liked their breasts played with in a certain way, doesn’t mean somebody else will!

Much like anything else in the bedroom, breast play is very individual and everyone has their likes and dislikes. As ever, communication is the natural first step to a pleasurable experience for all parties!

Importantly, make sure to check in each time, as boobs are highly changeable and may be more or less sensitive (or even painful) depending on the time of the month.

Start gently and build things up

Starting out with super light touches is always a good shout to get a feel for what your partner likes. Start by lightly tracing the breast and nipple to get a feel for your partner’s unique sensitivity levels. 

Don’t go straight for the jackpot!

However tempting it may be, don’t dive straight in and head for the nipple. It’s great that you’re eager, but the beauty is in the build-up when it comes to breast play.

Start by tracing the outer curves of the breast with your hands or tongue, before slowly working your way inwards towards the areola and nipple. Alternate between each breast as you go along, and don’t rush – keep a nice leisurely pace.

Trust us, your partner will be begging for more once you reach the final destination!

Follow your partner’s cues

Aside from prior communication, learning your partner’s reactions is a great way to figure out what they like best.

Is their breathing getting heavier? Are they moaning or writhing under your touch? Are they starting to look flushed on their face or chest?

Figure out your partner’s pleasure reactions and learn from them. Once you notice those tell-tale signs – do more of whatever it is you’re doing!

Experiment with temperature

We’re all for switching things up a bit and, luckily, with breast play, there is a tonne of fun options on the cards!

For some different sensations without and scary equipment, why not take some inspiration from Fifty Shades of Grey and get creative with your drink.

Remove an ice cube and run it over your partner’s nipples before blowing on them. The temperature change will increase sensitivity and feel incredible. 

Alternatively, experiment with toys

If you and your partner enjoy using toys in the bedroom, there is a whole load of options to choose from!

Whether you opt for classic nipple-play instruments like nipple clamps or suction devices or decide to get your magic wand involved, there are a whole variety of new and exciting sensations ready to be discovered.

Just remember to keep in mind that the sensations provided by toys are often much more intense than what can be achieved with your mouth or tongue. Work up to this and keep the dialogue open throughout!

For those of you who want to try something a bit more extreme, we’d suggest a nipple pump (or a whole set) and also nipple clamps attached to a collar, if you’re more into D/s and kinkier plays.

Breast play is an often-overlooked practice, but when done right it can open up a whole new area of pleasure for you and your partner! If you try out any of our tips, we’d love to know your thoughts!

Equally, if there’s anything you would add to this list, let us know in the comments.

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