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Sexual trends changed in recent years.

If you think about it, oral and anal sex haven’t been this popular 30 or more years ago, which means that bedroom trends change every couple of years.

One of the newest sex trends is prostate massage and pegging.

Pegging is the act where the guy and the girl change roles. This is also a porn category with a very high search volume, and it involves a girl penetrating the guy with a strap-on.

The prostate massager quickly became one of the most popular sex toys to ever hit the market.

Have you thought about gifting your parrtner something kinky that’s going to make your sex slightly more intriguing?

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5 reasons why your choice should land on a good prostate massager:

Because you want it

Let’s be honest – if you clicked on this title, then you probably want to perform a prostate massage on your man. You have probably read a lot about how good it feels for a guy to have his prostate massaged, and the chances of him being too scared to try are probably very high.

This is where you step in.

Try to make him comfortable to try it out, let him know that massaging his prostate is not connected to any sexual preference, but to pleasure itself. Also, let him know that you will be using as much lube as he wants because you really want to make him feel comfortable.

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Because it’s time to forget about the prejudice

One of the main reasons your partner might be reluctant to try this out is the stigma that this process carries with it.

It’s 2020, and it’s high time we left that stigma behind and embraced all the things that might make us feel better.

In order to make this happen, we suggest that you don’t tell your man what you want to do, but rather check an adult shop online and find a good prostate massager to order.

Here’s 2 more prostate massager that we like: Lovehoney Ignite & Mantric.

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Because it will spice up your sex life

Sex becomes a bit boring after some time with the same partner, we all know that. In order to keep the bedroom flame alive, it’s good to try new things every once in a while.

And perhaps you have already tried new things, which is fantastic, but there’s always room for more.

A prostate massage can only make things in the bedroom better, and the sooner you try it out, the sooner you will realize this. Role-reversal is an act that everyone should try out.

True, it’s not for everyone but you will never know if this is the right kinky stuff for you unless you try it.

Read How to Spice Up the Bedroom: 79 Hottest Ideas64 Kinky Sex Ideas: Not for Beginners.

Because the erection is going to be even stronger

There are several reasons why the erection is stronger after a good prostate massage.

First and foremost, it’s essential to know that one part of the guy’s penis is located inside their body (to be exact, one-third of it). Stimulating this portion of the penis can bring incredible pleasure that can affect the erection. See how to do it.

According to many people who are up for this act, their erections have become stronger and thicker, which means that this is a win-win situation.

This is also something that can be achieved with Kegel exercises as well, which can serve as a great warmup!

Because it’s healthy

Finally, let’s play the health card. Apart from being able to cure erectile dysfunction, a prostate massage can treat benign enlarged prostate, prostate inflammation, and urinary hesitancy (the difficulty urinating).

All of these are important information that every guy should know. Add tremendous sexual pleasure to the mix, and there’s really no reason for any guy to say no to this.

Yes, there is a certain stigma around a prostate massage, but it’s time to explore as much as we can and be open to all the possibilities life throws at us.

We only live once, so why not be a bit kinkier than ever before?

Guest author

Peter Minkoff
Peter is a sex and dating columnist for Queer Voices magazine. Follow Peter on Twitter for more tips.

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