Being the fantasy lovers that we are, creating erotic roleplay scenarios and a guide on how to do erotic roleplay was a huge joy.
Intro to erotic roleplay
A visit to a sexy doctor for an examination, going to school and being punished by a teacher for not writing homework, or maybe there was a fire and a masculine, gallant fireman saved you – these are just some of the scenarios that I would say, are some of the most popular scenarios people fantasize about.
Personally, I think there is no one person on Earth that did not have a fantasy like that. We were all extremely bored at some point in our lives. And horny.
Erotic roleplaying is a ”kinky trip” for some couples and some couples enjoy it on a regular basis.
In other words, exercising roleplaying is for everybody. It is an effective way to spice your sex life and to add some playfulness to the bedroom (or outside of it?!) – or as I read somewhere, it is a way to make hot sex even hotter.
But above all – don’t overthink it. Erotic roleplay should be a simple and effective way to add value to your sex life.
Use the erotic fantasies you already have to guide you through your experience.
There is no right or wrong way to roleplay. Should you add only one simple detail like a blindfold or do a complete room makeover is totally up to you.
What is erotic roleplay?
Erotic roleplay or ERP is a type of roleplay with an erotic component, mostly performed for the purpose of sexual behavior. It is often considered as a mean of overcoming sexual inhibitions.
How to make your ERP sessions kinkier?
A few articles we wrote go well with this erotic roleplay guide.
- If it is a case that you catch a thief or kidnap someone – you will need some basic bondage skills.
- Maybe you want to ”punish” someone by dripping wax on their body. Or, even better, make them your sex slave.
You’ll probably notice that many ideas that we list have specific power dynamics – a Dominant and a submissive side of the story.
- That is where our guide to D/s relationships might come in handy. Also, not always a male is the Dominant one.
- Read our beginner guide to female domination to get some ideas on how to act and how to dress like a real Dominatrix.
Don’t want to do it in your home?
- Should you get bored of roleplaying in your house, see other places to have sex.
- Can’t reach the destination because you two spontaneously combust? Continue then to a more detailed explanation of how to have sex in a car.
And finally, don’t forget our big list of kinky sex ideas, spicy 30-day sex challenge for couples (downloadable), and the sex bucket list, like good wine and cheese, these also pair well with roleplaying.
Erotic roleplay ideas
This list contains 36 erotic roleplay ideas that we thought of or found through research online.
You can also get our eBook – The eBook of Kinky Sex Ideas, where, among 186 illustrated ideas, you can enjoy 60 erotic role-play ideas and scenarios.
The Stranger
This evergreen fantasy involves casual fling between two people. Set it up in a way that you start your roleplaying session in a bar, restaurant, beach, or wherever you might find it exciting to meet someone for the first time. One of you should come to the place of your choice earlier to make it more authentic. If it is a bar, talk with the waiter and send her a drink or casually ask: ”Mind if I buy you a drink?”. Let the story gradually develop into something more and finally, head to your home to finish it in style.
As a stranger you can hit on your other half, you can make a proposition, you can be inappropriate, you can dance together, you can touch each other below the table, you can have sex in public.
The doctor/ patient, nurse
This one is a classic!
This erotic roleplay plot can be played in several ways. As a doctor, you might be checking in on a patient or have a casual fling with a nurse. Also, nurses may also have an encounter with a patient or work late hours with a doctor colleague.
Buy a doctor’s coat or a nurse costume and some other doctor/nurse accessories like stethoscopes to get into a role. Exam your patient, run tests, see what’s beneath the nurse’s uniform. As a nurse, you can sponge bath your patient, help them recover by using unconventional methods, and dress them.
As a patient, you can request any of the treatments, or offer some kind of pay for better treatment.
The teacher/ student
Another classic! A relation we can all relate to, and without breaking any laws.
What makes it popular is that many of us fantasize about older lovers and at the same time, we fantasize about being an authority. It can be played both ways. Set up your home as a classroom or set it up as a home class. During the play you can, offer or request ‘’other’’ kind of lectures, you can punish your student for not doing what they are supposed to. You can be an inappropriate student or teacher, you can request payment in certain ways.
Fun suggestion – use a wooden ruler for spanking.
The Travelling Salesman
Your goal is to sell – anything (cars, shoes, house, clothes, lingerie,…) to your customer. Place of happening can be your home (your customer’s home). As a salesman, you can convince people to buy your product. Make them try it out in front of you if it is clothes or offer a discount in exchange for something.
As a customer, you can offer different types of payment for the goods.
The boss, manager, corporate CEO/ secretary, employee
This erotic roleplay plot can be played several times easily. The power is on the side of the boss’s side of the story, while the unfortunate employee has a naughty boss to deal with.
As a boss, you can require a lot of things from your employees. You can require them to stay and work late hours, to go on a business trip with you, to do certain tasks for you. Boss can punish secretaries for not doing their job. Boss can offer a raise for doing certain things. As a secretary, you can be submissive and admit your mistakes, or you can protest if you are not a happy employee. You can see if your boss’s wishes and needs are fulfilled. You can also do something extra for the boss to get a raise.
The Cheerleader
In a similar basket as teacher/ student and schoolgirl fantasizes. A common male wish is to have fun with a cheerleader. Start with buying a cheerleader uniform.
Cheerleaders are usually spoiled, slutty, and demanding – little brats. You can teach them some manners, or – you can fulfill her wishes. Do it in a car to get in a real high school vibe.
The Mafia
One of my favorites! I definitely suggest watching The Scarface to get in the role. Dress up accordingly, set your tone and jump into this scenario.
You can be a don or a hitman. They can be rough with anyone, and demand certain things because you have the power. Blackmail is a tool you often use. You can also do other people a favor and request something in return. Spare one’s life in exchange for something.
The Pimp
You meet various girls during your usual workday. Try and convince someone to work for you or have sex with your workers. Have a debt paid off by requesting something naughty.
Or, you can turn this story around and have an encounter with an undercover cop for example.
The schoolgirl
This one is closely related to teacher/ student scenario, just in this case, a teacher is usually a male, while the other side pretends to be a naughty schoolgirl. Buy a schoolgirl uniform, put on a (a bit excessive) make-up and make a ponytail. As a schoolgirl, you can protest about your teacher’s request, be loud, be rude.
As a teacher, you can punish the schoolgirl, make her do something as a part of her lesson.
The Kidnapper
One of you kidnapped the other one and requires a ransom. You can demand things from a person you kidnapped. Or you can take it by force (with consent, of course).
You can buy rope and a blindfold to take this play to another level.
The Cowgirl/ Cowboy
Get some Wild West clothes, fake guns, and hats and spend some time as the real cowgirls and cowboys would. They used to roam around on their horses, sleep in the wilderness, participate in gunfights or also, and occasionally visited brothels.
You can demand a lot of things when you have a gun. Many cowboys and girls were lonely at the time.
The Queen/ The King
You can do pretty much everything as a part of the Royal family. That means that your sexual desires can be fulfilled in any way you wish. Either with your queen (or king) or with anyone in your kingdom. You can demand anything from your servants, you can even punish them if they don’t obey. Let people worship you in any way you can imagine. Throw an orgy.
Be the ruler you always wanted to be.
The Celebrity
This is the opportunity to be anyone, from a singer to an actor and everything in between. This sexy roleplay scenario is pretty straightforward. Step in the shoes of any celebrity you like. Your fame and influence work for you. You can pay people to do anything you want, you can bribe people, hire prostitutes or strippers, have crazy pool parties, engage in sex with loyal fans. Celebrities meet all kinds of people: agents, make-up artists, fashion designers, fans, crazy fans,…
As you are a famous person someone can approach you and offer something naughty. You may also demand something similar. You can act inappropriately. Invite someone to your mansion and use them. Organize your audition for an upcoming movie and request something in return for the role. Someone can break into your dressing room and surprise you.
For the next time – try roleplaying with both of you being celebrities.
The Pirate
You are living a life full of adventures. You are traveling across the sea, battling other pirates and stealing the treasure. Make the best of it! Be the pirate captain and have a whole crew that listens to you. Demand anything from them, promise them gold in exchange for something naughty. If you take over other pirate ship, make men/ women your prisoners.
Or just, visit a brothel when you get to a port.
The Girl Next Door/ The Horny Housewife
Typical porn scenario (or real life?). Be a slutty/ kinky/ horny girl that lives next door and invite your neighbor over. After short chitchat, you get down to business.
How can you play it? As a girl next door, you might be washing a car and get all wet. You might run out of potatoes or coffee. As a kinky neighbor, you can always go and try to seduce your girl next door. One warm and lazy afternoon, you are both bored, etc.
The Boy-toy
You are going to be used – probably by some rich, older lady. Because you have to – do whatever you’re told to do. Dress how you are told and please the best you can.
The policeman, detective, the FBI/ burglar, thief, criminal mastermind
You get the picture – one is the law, while the other one is breaking the law.
Roles and costumes are not limited to one gender, switching up make it even more fun. Get a police uniform and a badge. As a member or law enforcement, you can strip search them, question, arrest, capture, punish someone for their misdeeds, and offer some sexy options for payment. You can also introduce some BDSM elements into the story. Get handcuffs and a police bat and try out bondage and spanking. Some blindfold or rope can come useful too.
Naughty idea – it doesn’t have to be that law-enforcement members are in charge. What if criminal mastermind caught an undercover detective? The possibilities are endless. Another possible roleplay plot is that you set a scene where a burglar gets caught stealing a precious diamond.
Get into the role and show who is in charge. While the other side can show some force and refuse to get caught and arrested.
Fun suggestion – use a big dildo instead of a police bat.
The Hero/ Evil Villain
Another great roleplaying scenario with lots of erotic possibilities. You can play any famous hero/ villain or you can invent new ones, suited for your play. As a hero you can save someone in distress, you can defeat evil forces or even better, can get seduced by them. On the other side, as an evil villain, you can fight the heroes, you can kidnap people, you can make people obey your wishes.
As a bonus, you can introduce your hidden ‘’cave’’ into the play. It is a place where you have a harem or where you seduce side.
The Rock Star
As a celebrity person, you can use your fame, influence, and money to seduce someone. You can also be seduced by a fan, and it can happen anywhere – bar, backstage, stage, club, your home, studio or maybe during an interview. In the case your seducing skills are not the best, you can always use – money.
The Flight Attendant
Flight attendants wear short skirts, uniforms, and high heels. This is a perfect roleplay scenario for someone ‘’looking’’ for a quickie or a one-night stand. Join a Mile high club in the plane’s bathroom or meet in a bar the flight. Simple, yet interesting.
The Librarian
She is a quiet one, shy and SEXY. Her outfit is probably a skirt, not necessarily a short one, glasses, and a killer smile. Just a regular librarian for most people, but when the right man comes, she becomes wild. There is no better kinky roleplay idea for a woman that is smart and kinky.
The Master /Slave, Servant
Step into the world of BDSM and D/s relationships. Masters can require everything from their slaves. Make them do house chores or make them please you. Punish them, if they fail to do that. Masters own their slaves so treat them like that, you are the authority.
Learn your slave all the submissive positions.
The Mother In Law
You can play this one in two ways. Two different mothers-in-law exist – the mother you hate and the mother you find extremely sexy. One way to go is to seduce her and have secret fun with her, while the other is more ‘’rough’’. Get in a fight with her and/or use her.
Or maybe – she can use you as a sex toy.
The Nun/ Priest
Taboo roleplay scenario. It’s not for everybody. BUT if you don’t mind roleplaying kinky nun or a priest – I guarantee you’ll have fun. Nuns can be seduced or forced by priests to do all kinds of things – kinky too.
The Dominatrix, Femme Fatale
Be a female domme – make your man ‘’suffer’’. You can read our Femdom guide to help you step into the role. In this roleplay scenario, power is on the side of the female, while the man is a submissive one. Very similar to the master/ slave scenario, just the other way around. Make him do chores or make him please you however you want it. If he doesn’t perform well – punish him.
Read our FemDom guide to get into the role.
The Knight
Fairytale roleplay scenario. You are a well-known knight, all strong and powerful, charming and beautiful.
I have two possible scenarios in my head. The first one is that you are coming home from a battle and your wife/ princess desires to relax and please you. You deserved it. In the second scenario – you are the savior. There is a situation and you save someone in a distress – and now they have to/ want to pay you back in any form. And a bonus, extra kinky idea – bring a dragon dildo into the mix and see what adding a bit of a villain to your hero fantasy can do for you.
The Alien
A great roleplay scenario for fantasy lovers.
You are a visitor from another planet. You can be a nice and kind visitor or a dangerous one. Step into the role and interact with humans as you wish. Mate with humans or experiment with them, make them your slaves.
Fun suggestion – our planet doesn’t have to be the place where the action is. Set a stage in space!
The Fireman
You can play this one in two ways.
As a fireman, you spend a lot of time working and with your colleagues, which makes it possible to have a fling with one of them. The second way to play this is to save a damsel in distress (this one is more likely to happen). The big and strong fireman comes to rescue and does the job. And the obvious thing to do is to repay him for the favor. Costumes are available for females too – so switch it up!
The Prostitute/ Stripper
Rent a hotel room. One of you comes there first, waits for the other one. Wait for her (or him, of course) to change and the fun starts. For the sake of authenticity, pay upfront and discuss what and what not is allowed.
If it is a stripper in question, act accordingly and buy proper, slutty clothes and shoes.
The Pool Cleaner
You are one wealthy lady, relaxing by her pool. Pool cleaner comes to do his thing and all of a sudden, you need someone to rub your sun cream in. Do you see where I’m going?
The Vampire
Get in the shoes of Blade, Dracula or Selene from Underworld. Few simple searches on Google and you’ll find ideas on how to dress or where to buy costumes. Recreate a movie scenario or create your own. Personally, I would introduce bondage or light Dominance/ submission elements into the session.
Vampires are dangerous and seductive in their nature, so use that in your favor. Lure a ”normal” person in your dark world or try and tame a werewolf. Set up your living room as your den, protect yourself from the daylight and start.
The Babysitter
A lot of possibilities with this one!
You have one hot, young babysitter at home and you’d like to have fun with her. Offer her a raise or more hours in exchange for something naughty. As the babysitter – use your wealthy boss and blackmail him later. Ask for a raise by giving something (like a BJ).
The Producer
Either take advantage of a talent who needs a breakthrough or should you play it the other way around, offer something for success. Come to the studio dressed provocatively and see what happens.
The Politician, Judge
Picture this, it is an election year and a certain person found controversial information about you and is blackmailing you. Power dynamics are turned upside down. You are asked to do various favors or maybe sexually please somebody. Or why not play it the other way around, you – the mighty politician is pressuring someone. Use your political influence to get what you want.
In a similar way, you can play the role of a judge.
The Millionaire
When you check your bank account – there is all the money in the world. Are you going to host the wildest parties ever? Hire a luxury prostitute? Bribe someone? Just remember, everybody has a price and you can pay any price.
The French Maid
For this one, it is essential you get the costume. You can also get some props so it’s more credible.
Act seducing while you clean the house, show too much. Offer yourself for a raise. As her boss, you can be authoritative and make her do whatever you want. Why not start from the beginning? 🙂 State your naughty requests when you hire the maid.
How to set a scene & props ideas for erotic roleplay
As we wrote in the first paragraph, go through the scene with your partner. Talk about it and think about where, how, and why are you going to set the scene and also – what props do you need. We have some general advice and ideas that’ll help you have a better erotic roleplay experience.
Setting the scene
Classroom
Set it up in a kitchen or living room. Place a table and a chair to represent a student’s desk. You can also have a blackboard on the wall.
Hospital
Use your bedroom and bed. Put only the white sheets on the bed, use a nightstand to show your tools, put some towels around.
Caught by police
Set that scene in a garage or backyard. You can be caught for speeding (or some other offense). The cop pulls you over and approaches you from behind.
Military
Set this up in a living room and a bedroom. Organize the bed in the bedroom so it looks neat. Clean the living room to have enough space for marching, push-ups & other fun stuff.
Cheerleader
Just take your car and a cheerleader to a secluded place. Jump on to the back seat and go back to being a teenager.
Secretary
Set it up in a kitchen or living room. You need a table, a chair, some pens, notebooks, and a phone.
Props
Secretary
Use pad, pencils, notebooks, briefcase, post-it notes, laptops, glasses, fake resumes.
Cheerleader
Use skirts, pom-poms, pig-tails, ponytails, white socks, jerseys.
Hero
Get some big but easy-to-lift objects to save someone who is trapped. Like big cardboard boxes.
Pet
Use collars, leashes, blankets, horsehair butt plugs, water, and food bowls, pet toys.
Military
Use hats, belts, canteens, pouches, straps, holsters, fake guns. Get a uniform.
Unicorn
Use a fantasy unicorn dildo and a unicorn skirt.
Master/ slave
Use leashes, collars, whips, chains, ropes.
Pimp/ prostitute
Use wigs, short skirts, no underwear (or sexy lingerie), wigs, lube, heavy makeup, high heels, and a small purse with condoms in it.
Police
Use shades, utility belts, handcuffs, nightsticks, clipboards, hats, fake guns, fake badge, uniform.
Thief
Use sacks of loot and rope (for climbing or binding), face masks, tools.
Priest
Use robes, incense, a book, wine.
Patient
Use a hospital gown and slippers.
Doctor/ nurse
Use stethoscopes, gloves, tongue depressors, glasses, a clipboard, or various sexual examination tools including lubricant.
Teacher/ schoolgirl
Use chalk, blackboards, pens, clipboards, binders, glasses, rulers.
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Final words
Thank you for reading our erotic roleplay guide, it certainly took you some time. We hope that this guide will come to good use and that it will serve you in many hours of fun & naughty sex. Our request is that you share it with your kinky partners and friends. It would mean the world to us.
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