Are you and your partner making your own sex bucket list? Great. Our personal collection of creative sex bucket list ideas for couples is here to inspire you.
In this article, we’re revealing 105 of our own sexual adventures and intimate picks, perfect for couples ready to sexplore and enhance their sexual journey together.
We organized the list into two categories: mine and his. This approach let each of us contribute our deepest desires and the wild adventures we’ve always wanted to experience.
Our sex bucket list rules
After writing down our sex bucket list, we established a fundamental rule: absolutely no pressure.
We also decided on a second rule: to aim for crossing off two items each month.
At the start of every month, we’ll sit together, choose the next two adventures from our list, and schedule when to experience them.
Our bucket list is an ever-evolving adventure
Whenever we think of something new we want to try out, we add it to the list. This way our sexploring journey always stays fresh and exciting.
Inspiration for your own sex bucket list
We wrote a ton of content that features all the sexy and kinky things we do or have done so far. Here are two of my favorite articles:
Sex bucket list ideas for couples from a couple
Leja’s sex bucket list
1. I want to go to a sex party. The places I’ve been eyeing for some time are Chemistry, Hacienda, Killing Kittens, and One Leg Up.
These are all places in NYC which is very close to where we live.
2. I want to be double penetrated by you wearing something like this toy.
3. I want you to fuck me on the hood of the car somewhere in the nature.
We wrote a car sex guide after crossing this one off.
4. I want to have sex on a boat – and if possible – in the hidden cove.
Love sexploring in nature? Check out all the places to have sex we thought of.
5. Explore all the Kama Sutra sex positions from our blog.
We did that minus a couple that were a bit too extreme to pull off.
6. I want you to tie me down and tease me until I’m begging you to fuck me.
7. Have sex in the sea or on the beach.
This one was fun. Another kayaker saw us while we fucked in the shallow sea. We acted like we were only hugging. It was on this beach.
Follow Luka on Instagram to see more of our sexploring adventures.
8. I want you to try and take my panties off without using my hands.
9. I want us to cuddle and read erotic stories together as foreplay.
10. I want us to start and finish the 30-day sex challenge we created for ourselves.
11. I want us to watch porn together and later try and redo the scene we both liked.
Here is the porn I vibe to usually.
12. I want us to try several sex games for couples.
We wrote a list of the best sex games for couples after finishing this entry.
13. I want us to get drunk and visit a strip club together.
14. I want to try sex furniture such as a sex swing or a chaise.
Since then, we also did a Liberator Wedge review which proved to be an amazing piece of equipment.
15. I want us to visit a sex store together and choose the lingerie and toys we’re trying that night.
16. I’d love for you to get some inexpensive lingerie that we can playfully tear off in the heat of the moment.
17. I want you to tie me down with the bondage tape. I want you to use it as lingerie and as a bondage tool.
We did all that. We also wrote a guide after those adventures.
18. I want to do a sexy road trip together and I want to fuck in a motel (decent-looking motel).
19. I want you to fuck me from behind on a balcony overlooking the city.
Did it! On this balcony.
20. I want you to paint me with different colored candles.
Read the wax play guide if you want to try that.
21. I want to feed you my tits while you finger me.
22. I want you to give me a very long oral session and make me come that way.
Luka sharpened his oral skills to an avid level – and wrote an article about how to go down on a girl.
22. I want to see you eating edible lingerie off me.
23. I want you to lead me around the house while I’m wearing a collar and you’re holding the leash.
Want to get yourself a really good collar? Read this BDSM collar guide I wrote.
24. I want to finish all the Tantra courses on Beducated.
25. I want to do an erotic photoshoot. I will be your model and you can take advantage of me later.
26. I want to use Magic Wand while you fuck me on the edge of the bed.
27. I want to sleep naked and have sex early in the morning.
28. I would like to have sex in a national park.
29. I want to do anal training involving different sizes of butt plugs.
An anal girl like me? Get yourself these plugs or if you want to splurge, these ones.
30. I want to play with anal beads.
We played with many but these simple ones are my favorite.
31. I want to be your sex slave for a night and you can do whatever you’d like to me.
Click here for our more extreme list of slave training techniques.
32. I want to try a mutual masturbation play while we exchange eye contact.
33. I want you to oil me, massage me and then fuck me.
Get yourself a water-based lube and cross off two things at once.
34. I want to have degrading sex on the floor.
35. I want to have a romantic dinner followed by romantic sex with candles and gentle music.
Luka’s sex bucket list
1. I want you to blow me while riding a dildo suctioned up to a surface. Also, I want you to suck the dildo while I fuck you.
Read how to use a suction cup dildo for more tips.
2. I want to watch you finger yourself in front of me.
3. I want to watch you finger yourself over the camera – while we are apart.
Something like this interested you too? Read the phone sex guide we wrote.
4. I want you to blow me while I’m driving.
5. I want to have sex in a public space, such as a bench in the far-away part of a park.
After crossing this one, we wrote an article on how NOT to do public sex.
6. I want to tie you down to the chair and give your nipples a royal treatment using the nipples suckers, ice cubes, my tongue, and nipple clamps.
This we did and he added the noise-cancelling earphones and a blindfold and it was literally mind-fucking-blowing.
7. I want you to send me dirty sexts before I come home to you waiting for me in lingerie.
8. I want to fuck you like a slut while you’re wearing a fishnet dress.
9. I want you to wear the lingerie I buy from you.
He buys cheap stuff for sex on Yandy. And the really sexy stuff he got me was from Lounge Underwear.
10. I want you to ride my face like there is no tomorrow. Use your hands to force my head in your pussy.
11. I want us to have sex in a tent when we go camping.
Crazy fun, especially with all the sounds coming from the forest. If you’re going to be trying this, remember to turn off the light in the tent. This was the tent.
12. I want you to tie me up and tease me until I want to explode. Touch me, grind yourself on me, dance in front of me,…
13. I want you to do a slow and sensual striptease for me.
14. I want to take you to a sex vacation weekend where we will only eat, drink and fuck.
15. I want to fuck you on a kitchen table.
16. I want to fuck you anally on a bar stool.
17. I want you to wear a sex toy while I take you out on a fancy dinner date. I will be controlling the remote.
Did that with We-Vibe Moxie. Initially, we were using the We-Vibe Chorus for this but it is not as comfortable and effective.
18. I want to record you sucking my cock.
19. I want you to suck my rock-hard cock in the morning.
20. I want to see you getting fucked by a sex machine.
We tried the handheld fucking dildo which is very close to a fucking machine. We also wrote what mistakes to avoid in case you decide to buy a sex machine.
21. I want to tie your legs with a spreader bar while I tease your pussy with a riding crop.
22. I want to wear a chastity cage while you do everything to arouse me.
He did eventually – see cock cage review & story here. Also, check 8 other chastity cage play ideas we had.
23. I want to have a dedicated handjob session where you will combine multiple handjob techniques on my cock.
24. I want you to worship my cock and give it a sensual Lingam massage.
Learn how to do a lingam massage and put it to practice. IT IS AMAZING.
25. I want you to give me a very lubed foot job.
Read how to use lube 29 different and (sexually) crazy ways.
26. I want you to make me ridiculously hard while wearing a cock ring.
27. I want to do a clone-a-willy project with you so I can fuck you even when I’m not home.
28. I want to lick honey from your tits.
We did a podcast episode on this.
29. I want to have a blindfolded lube-tasting night.
30. I want to roleplay a scenario where I will have to punish you by spanking you.
31. I want to make your cheeks blush in this spanking skirt.
32. I want you to send me nudes, tasty and also dirty.
33. I want to have sex in the shower and if possible in a hot tub.
34. I want to play a game of strip poker.
35. I want to have a quickie outside the house.
36. I want to have sex in a house full of people.
Why should you consider a sex bucket list?
Creating and exploring a sex bucket list was a changing experience for us.
Crossing off things from a sexual bucket list not only sparked creativity in our bedroom but also fostered communication which enhanced and improved the bond between us.
It’s not just about the fucking and orgasming; it’s about embarking on a shared sexploration of desires, fantasies, and most importantly, mutual fulfillment. A sex bucket list encouraged a healthy and deeply connected sexual adventure.
The sex bucket list journey improved our relationship while also allowing us to learn more about each other’s evolving desires. This list proved to be an essential tool for keeping the fire burning in our long-term relationship.
Happy sexploring!
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